[EN] The Comfort Corner!

♥ EN COMFORT CORNER♥

♥ Need a shoulder to cry on? Or maybe the help of a friend or a thread to vent your problems onto? If so, you needn't search any further than the English Comfort Corner, where comfort is guarenteed. ♥

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This is an A+ thread and A+ concept. I'll be hanging around and offering support when I can, as someone who's felt on edge quite a lot.

brilliant thread!
i'll pop by every once and a while.

Very nice and organized thread
may pass by here a few times

i love this

Infinite Support

we needed this sooner or later
im here for u

Thanks for the support everybody!
Don't be shy guys <3 cleared up some rules

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#10

this thread is comfortable

#11

thank you for this thread

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#12

this is an amazing thread!

I'm defiantly gonna be looking at this thread every once in a while..

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xxtoothless a dit :
thank you for this thread
okay so i've been going though a lot of stress lately, to the point where I just want to stop what i'm doing and cry, it seems like i'm loosing hope, too. i'm not sure how or why, more less of what is causing this, it's just happening. I also don't feel/seem as motivated as I use to be. It's getting harder and harder for me to get up in the morning, especially on school days. I beat myself up on getting high grades and I feel like i'm dying. it's such a horrible feeling, really.

Stress and pressure always sucks, I know. Just try your best, set goals for yourself and reward you when you reach them. If you get a bad grade, think about how you can improve it next time. There is no use crying over spilt milk. Don't push yourself to hard because you already are so amazing and smart! Don't be afraid to cry or bottle up your feelings, because it just is going to hurt more and you will get even more stressed.

Try exercises or perhaps calming music. Some really good bands are sleeping at last and emancipator for that.

Stay strong and don't ever forget I'm there for you welcoming you with open arms of you need. More help or a pm.

#14

Genius thread!

#15

amazing thread

#16

Boefie a dit :

Well eh.. lets do this i guess
Im.. scared that im not good enough for my friends
All the girls around me write hearts on their books and put their head on others shoulders.
But im not really a touchy type, and certainly not one to write ''i love you so much <333'' on anything
Whenever my friends talk to some other people i get really jealous and scared that they'll dump me, thanks to some past experiences.
It feels really bad and not fair against my friends.

eternalcool a dit :
okay so i dont really think this is worthy of being on this thread but i have these best friends right
well i was asking them what they think i'd do in case i needed money ( it popped into my mind shh ) and they said " be annoying " and after that i thought stuff like " do they think of me as annoying " and everytime i always try to make a joke they dont laugh but one of my friends laugh when the other tells jokes

long story short i want to know if i should still be their friend or not because if they see me as annoying i dont want to be their friend but they're amazing friends and i just

idk man

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Haruhitastic a dit :
Boefie a dit :

Well eh.. lets do this i guess
Im.. scared that im not good enough for my friends
All the girls around me write hearts on their books and put their head on others shoulders.
But im not really a touchy type, and certainly not one to write ''i love you so much <333'' on anything
Whenever my friends talk to some other people i get really jealous and scared that they'll dump me, thanks to some past experiences.
It feels really bad and not fair against my friends.

i have this feeling a lot, don't feel bad! as well, just because your personality is different from theirs doesn't mean you're a bad friend. i have friends who are this way (in that they're not the touchy feely kiss kiss mwahmwah lov u type), but they're some of the best friends ever!
i understand the jealousy as well, but it's worth noting that if they didn't like you, they wouldn't be your friend. and if they don't like/appreciate how you act towards them because it's not how they feel is right, then they're not worth your time.

eternalcool a dit :
okay so i dont really think this is worthy of being on this thread but i have these best friends right
well i was asking them what they think i'd do in case i needed money ( it popped into my mind shh ) and they said " be annoying " and after that i thought stuff like " do they think of me as annoying " and everytime i always try to make a joke they dont laugh but one of my friends laugh when the other tells jokes

long story short i want to know if i should still be their friend or not because if they see me as annoying i dont want to be their friend but they're amazing friends and i just

idk man

it's a thread for advice so i'd say it's worth it!

i'd clarify if it's a joke or something, in all fairness. otherwise, if they find you annoying and have the gall to say such to your face, then imo they're not worth your time.

Thanks, Haru!
This helped me :)

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#19

Boefie a dit :
Haruhitastic a dit :
Boefie a dit :

Well eh.. lets do this i guess
Im.. scared that im not good enough for my friends
All the girls around me write hearts on their books and put their head on others shoulders.
But im not really a touchy type, and certainly not one to write ''i love you so much <333'' on anything
Whenever my friends talk to some other people i get really jealous and scared that they'll dump me, thanks to some past experiences.
It feels really bad and not fair against my friends.

i have this feeling a lot, don't feel bad! as well, just because your personality is different from theirs doesn't mean you're a bad friend. i have friends who are this way (in that they're not the touchy feely kiss kiss mwahmwah lov u type), but they're some of the best friends ever!
i understand the jealousy as well, but it's worth noting that if they didn't like you, they wouldn't be your friend. and if they don't like/appreciate how you act towards them because it's not how they feel is right, then they're not worth your time.

eternalcool a dit :
okay so i dont really think this is worthy of being on this thread but i have these best friends right
well i was asking them what they think i'd do in case i needed money ( it popped into my mind shh ) and they said " be annoying " and after that i thought stuff like " do they think of me as annoying " and everytime i always try to make a joke they dont laugh but one of my friends laugh when the other tells jokes

long story short i want to know if i should still be their friend or not because if they see me as annoying i dont want to be their friend but they're amazing friends and i just

idk man

it's a thread for advice so i'd say it's worth it!

i'd clarify if it's a joke or something, in all fairness. otherwise, if they find you annoying and have the gall to say such to your face, then imo they're not worth your time.

Thanks, Haru!
This helped me :)

thishelpedmetoothankyou

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ok, i'm writing in this spoiler what i felt recently

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