Uh hey! Have you ever get bullied? Well, you came to the right thread. In this discussion about bullying, you guys can tell me your experiences, ask some tips, and tell if it is bullying, cyberbullying , physical bullying, etc

For victims,

Please ask tips, your not alone, do not suicide
Its not ok. Say something

For bullies,

Can you stop bullying! Its like killing thousands of people all over the world.
Be a friend,
not a bully

For anyone who seen this thread that dosent like me,
Im just trying to help, not fucking people off.

-Queenlordess

Ughhhh.... Bullying is everywhere on tfm -_- I don't even know where to start with how many selfish jerks are on this game :I all they do is waste their lives picking on new players just for their enjoyment. It's pathetic, really. :/ and they're too stupid to realize how much their words hurt people -.- I don't know why half of the players on tfm have to be so cruel .-.

Hmmm... idk if i can answer dat....but mabye they still dont know that they r bullying others.....btw read the message up first b4 you comment

'cyberbullying is everywhere on tfm'*

there is a difference



but i see so many people saying they get cyberbullied on tfm when they get one or two insults, i wonder if they actually know what it is

queenlordess a dit :

do not suicide






-Queenlordess

my new fav quote

queenlordess a dit :

Please ask tips, your not alone, do not suicide
Its not ok. Say something

This is probably the most cockamamie thing I've ever heard. If someone is being harassed, telling them "DO NOT SUICIDE" is not going to help at all lol.. If they are at the point they wish to take their own life due to this, then they are way past the point of "hey, man, just don't okay." They need a bit more support than that.

Well i was bullied during the last 3 years so i got some experiance XD
-Ignore the bully and get as from him as possible
-He hits you? don't hit back (of course unless your like supper tough) hitting him back might start a war.
-Suicidal toughts never work.
-Even if hits you hard, don't cry or drop a tear, after all its just a bruise. its not going to kill you.
And this is probably the best solution in my toughts you must have the guts tho:
-Tell your parents, And maybe the principal or director of school if you were school bullied.

firewingedx a dit :

Ughhhh.... Bullying is everywhere on tfm -_- I don't even know where to start with how many selfish jerks are on this game :I all they do is waste their lives picking on new players just for their enjoyment. It's pathetic, really. :/ and they're too stupid to realize how much their words hurt people -.- I don't know why half of the players on tfm have to be so cruel .-.

someone calling you a noob shaman on tfm =/= cyberbullying
point of cyberbullying is that they're specifically targeting and constantly harassing you, not your shitty building skills
plus it's pretty easy to ignore the problem on tfm, just leave the room or ignore-button them. shouldn't be a problem tbh unless they're a large group using alts and whatever to spam you.

Crying in front of a bully usually tells them that you're weak enough to allow them to continue picking on them, if you really can't hold your tears, walk away from them, out of their sight, and let the tears out when you can. But it really shouldn't get to that stage since you should tell someone about it before it gets from bad to worse.

I personally don't count Tfm bullying as a real bullying, You just can change the room or report the shameful troll

The reason I don't go to school, bullying.
In school there are WAY too many bullies, so I prefer homeschool.

And once a guy who was a lower level than me called me noob, and I was like: "DUDE, I'm ABOVE lvl 50 and you're only like 16-20, come on." so a lot of these bulliers are a lower level than you. The smartest thing to do is ignore them, you can also just not say ANYTHING and watch them go crazy. Then later they'll give up if you stay quiet and they'll leave.

You a dit :

Ok, I won't talk to you anymore, bully.

Bully a dit :

Hah, that's noob, way noob!

Bully a dit :

Hey, noob, noob, noob!

Bully a dit :

You gunna strike back?

Bully a dit :

Ugh, this is boring, bye! *takes leave*

You a dit :

Yay!!!

I advise you to stay quiet, so, yea.

^ I get bullied for being quiet so this doesn't happen all the time to other people

When someone "Trys" to bully me I always take a few hits at them and they run away.

Moepl a dit :

Lilytenten a dit :VoirMasquer

The reason I don't go to school, bullying.
In school there are WAY too many bullies, so I prefer homeschool.

And once a guy who was a lower level than me called me noob, and I was like: "DUDE, I'm ABOVE lvl 50 and you're only like 16-20, come on." so a lot of these bulliers are a lower level than you. The smartest thing to do is ignore them, you can also just not say ANYTHING and watch them go crazy. Then later they'll give up if you stay quiet and they'll leave.

You a dit :VoirMasquer

Ok, I won't talk to you anymore, bully.

Bully a dit :VoirMasquer

Hah, that's noob, way noob!

Bully a dit :VoirMasquer

Hey, noob, noob, noob!

Bully a dit :VoirMasquer

You gunna strike back?

Bully a dit :VoirMasquer

Ugh, this is boring, bye! *takes leave*

You a dit :VoirMasquer

Yay!!!

I advise you to stay quiet, so, yea.

I suspect by your post that your homeschooling actually furthers your disability to deal with bullies and makes you a victim for life.

Ejaffa a dit :VoirMasquer

^ I get bullied for being quiet so this doesn't happen all the time to other people

Being quiet does not make you a victim. Having no spine does.

agreed moepl

Lilytenten a dit :

"DUDE, I'm ABOVE lvl 50 and you're only like 16-20, come on."

I hope you understand that level does not constitute how good or experienced you are at the game, and it is not adequate to be called a skillful or unskilled player based on level alone.

Bully's prey on the weak or those susceptible to teasing, and harassing. Its harder to bully someone who shows no fear or timidness. When it comes to gaming online, you're dealing with human beings. Some of these humans think that just because you're not face to face they can sh*t talk you easily. Lets face it, anyone can. In my opinion, if you're dealing with haters hatin' on you via online, then ignore them. Don't feel apprehension because someone called you 'stupid' online. Needless to say, cyber bullies are pathetic. Real life bullies are even more deplorable.