"Not everyone need said thing in life"

Thats my opinion.

I don't really want love that much I would prefer to just have friends

I don't believe on love at first sight
you may like someone at first sight, but you never know hes/her personality.
I believe in love, and yes i would like to get married later, but its not like its my no.1 in life
i pick school and friends over it
and i'm too young to even think about a serious relationship

Kingmausey a dit :

What do you think of love?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Have you ever fallen in love?
Or maybe even out of love?
What is love?

1.On every jar fits a lid (DUTCH QUOTE)
2. nope
3. nope
4. What?
5. idk

1. I'm too young to think about it right now, but I think it's kind of evil. I mean, if they don't like you or cheat on you, they would break your heart (and you will do what you do when you're sad). But it could also be that they will keep being loyal and loving to you, so it kinda depends on being lucky.
2. I don't think it's really love, I believe it's just judging on the looks aka the outside. They should learn their personality first.
3. Not really, more having a like. I just literally friendzone everyone, though I sometimes do make jokes.
5. I think it's just a word to say when you feel really attached and have weird feelings around that one person.

Before I begin to talk about love, I'd like to point out the difference - for me - between love and infatuation. Since I believe there is one.



TL;DR love > infatuation

When I admit to someone I like them, though, it's not always infatuation. Sure, they're technically synonymous, but for me personally liking someone can also mean when I think we could have a good loving relationship. I see a potential there and I'd like to improve the good stuff we already have going. So, meh, yeah. In truth, when I'm infatuated, I'll almost never say. I feel as if I don't have the right, that they'll never reciprocate those feelings and shouldn't anyway because of how superior they are, that they deserve someone on their level, stuff like that.

I fucking hate being infuated. Hate it.

"I have no desire for a relationship"
>Has sudden desire for relationship with someone

Isn't love just a chemical response over a prolonged period when a singular person or thing becomes associated with chemical responses that are then perceived by the brain as pleasant,romantic, etc..As a result when the said person is seen the brain releases the chemical to cause the feeling, "love"

Wrote this at 3:51AM So excuse any grammatical errors xP

What do you think of love?
I love... love xD. Intimate love may not be for everyone. For me it is a feeling that I live with every day of my life. I think when you have it, whether it be parent to child, child to sibling, or lover to lover. Love can be found everywhere even when you think you may not be loved, there is bound to be someone to love you. Again maybe not intimately but within even close nit friends.

Do you believe in love at first sight?
I honestly can say that I do not. You see in life when one person meets another you may first feel attracted to said person. Instinctively you will start to make yourself more appealing. In a sense everyone either lies about them self or doesn't show the true selves amongst the opposite sex you wish to attract. To really know with a person I believe you would need to experience time with them. Not a few months but perhaps a few years to truly get to know the real person. Me and my Husband have been together for about 9 years and we are STILL learning new things about each other. Though the biggest hurdle was the 4 year mark. That is when our TRUE selves came out. The bad things about us. I think all relationships experience this. That moment when you realize he has quirks you never knew of. Or you have quirks that prior you would have never shown but now you do. I believe it takes time and if you can master getting past all the differences and the arguments... because yes arguments will happen no matter how amazing you think a relationship is, there will be misunderstandings. The challenge is looking past all that and remembering that the person you see will have differences and that is what makes him unique and special.

Have you ever fallen in love? Or maybe even out of love?
Yes... As I said I am happily married to my husband. We may have our differences, some major, but we both have learned to look past all that and know that when we are old and grey we will have each other. Prior to him though there where many moments where I believed to be in love. Yet I would quickly learn that we where not compatible or perhaps (In my case) I would be cheated on and get my heart broken. I never married tho as I was careful as to whom I would attach myself to. I didn't want a relationship that would crumble after a big argument or be only a small thing. Of course that changed when me and my husband met. We took a LOOONG time to truly get to know each other and that 4 year hump was a dusy but we managed to pull through and now I have a wonderful husband and are planning to have a baby. :3

What is love?
Love.. well... Love in general is a feeling you get in your heart when you know you truly care for someone. Not wanting to ever see that person hurt or in pain. Love how I see it would mean being ready to lay down your life for another without a moments hesitation. Being a shoulder to cry on when they may need it. Or just being around for the one you love or the one whom loves you.

Closing thoughts?
I know many would probably read this and think. Meh that's all sissy stuff. Or perhaps that they will never feel love. Or maybe they think that love is overrated. Yet in all honesty love comes in many shapes and forms.I highly doubt anyone can say they do not love anything. For surely there is some form of love in your heart. Be it a person or.. in some cases an item or animal. lol. I believe when it comes to intimate love it is unyielding. There was something I learned once and I stand by it:
(I know some of you may be atheist or may not like religion but I hope you will not be offended by me posting this)
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

Again I truly mean no offense to anyone non-religious or of any other religion. I just believe that the words written there speak beautifully on what love is.

Hope no one minds this looong post xD

Love is not an emotion. Love is a promise.

I believe that everyone has a soul mate, it's just too crazy to believe that we can't find someone to spend the rest of our days with when there are about 7 billion people on the planet

Lilytenten a dit :

Love can be a good thing, but don't get too carried away with it. I dislike sex, and I don't think it's love at all.

Well, I doubt love at first sight happens in real life at all, but I guess it could happen. I still doubt it, though.

Yes, but my crush isn't a real person in real life.

My crush on my crush is sadly fading, but it's still there. So kind of.

Love is when two, one of the male gender, another of the female gender, have an affection towards one another.

Not meaning to be rude but your age is clearly showing here..
Love can be a lot of things. Some people express it in different ways, sexual relations can be one show of love to some but disgusting to others..
And love can be between all genders, not just man and woman. I can name countless homosexual and lesbian couples that have relationships that we could only dream of.

Love is one of the best things I've seen on earth :')
Personally I don't think 10 yos should be dating though

birdualt a dit :

Love is one of the best things I've seen on earth :')
Personally I don't think 10 yos should be dating though

but thats not love
if 10 year olds are dating they are not inlove

What do you think of love?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Have you ever fallen in love?
Or maybe even out of love?
What is love?[/quote]

1. I don't know...

2. No. Sure, you can like each other, but how can you love someone when you just met them?

3. Does falling in love with a cat count?

4. Well, I don't think I never loved my cat for a period of time.

5. I don't know. I don't feel like I get any. I don't know the feeling to be loved. But I know the feeling that you get when you truly love something or someone. That's the feeling I have towards my cat. He's my little baby.

Lilytenten a dit :

It kind of does seem a bit rude to be honest, but I'll put it behind us.
Yes, love can be a lot of things, but that doesn't mean sexual relationships are one of them. And I also do agree it can be expressed in different ways, but I still don't consider sexual relationships as love.
That may be how you consider love, but remember... This thread is about everyones' opinions on love, not just yours. And that counts mine.

We'll see how you feel in about five years. When I was your age I felt similar but then my eyes were opened to various other relationships.

For now though I'd just like to remind you that Ellen DeGeneres and Neil Patrick Harris have great marriages with their wife and husband..respectively. Meaning Ellen and her wife, and Neil and his husband.

Haruhitastic a dit :

Lilytenten a dit :VoirMasquer

It kind of does seem a bit rude to be honest, but I'll put it behind us.
Yes, love can be a lot of things, but that doesn't mean sexual relationships are one of them. And I also do agree it can be expressed in different ways, but I still don't consider sexual relationships as love.
That may be how you consider love, but remember... This thread is about everyones' opinions on love, not just yours. And that counts mine.

We'll see how you feel in about five years. When I was your age I felt similar but then my eyes were opened to various other relationships.

For now though I'd just like to remind you that Ellen DeGeneres and Neil Patrick Harris have great marriages with their wife and husband..respectively. Meaning Ellen and her wife, and Neil and his husband.

I hope you don't take this as rude but I must agree on what Lilytenten said. Everyone has there own opinions on love. Now you stating that Lily's opinion will change in 5 years seems a little rude and might I say kinda pushy. I am 29 and my opinions on what I stated will not change at all and personally I do agree on what Lily said but only on one aspect. One being that sexual relationships are not a complete representation of love. Mind you I do believe you can express your love through it. Yet if sexual intercourse is the only way you can express love then what would happen if, let's say two people are in love and one is incapable of sexual intercourse, or if a person was in that type of relationship where love was only expressed through sex and something happened to interfere with that. You can not expect them to stop loving the other person because of there in-capabilities. If someone stops loving you because of your in-capabilities of not being able to "pleasure" them or not willing to partake in sexual only acts, then I must say that is not love at all. I and my husband express our love through many things including sex. Yet sex isn't the main thing and if that was lost to us then it would not hinder the bond of love we have with each other.
My last say to you is that If Lily feels that way about love then who are you to tell her that her opinion shall change. She is allowed to feel as she wants about this whole thing as anyone else is. Again I hope I don't seem rude I just needed to point out that everyone is allowed to have there own opinion and you nor anyone else can or should tell them otherwise.
Also about her last statement on the types of love. I agree on her here. Only because of my upbringing. Simply said I believe the puzzle pieces should fit not clash. Just saying, but that is MY opinion. I won't tell anyone to change there ways.
This is an opinion thread. Just remember that and everyone is allowed to have there own thoughts on it.

1. no
2. no
3. no
4. no
5. idk
no i don't believe in love bye