Can we have a room set up specifically to go, like the log in page, after we save the totems instead of a random room where it lags for a while and then we have to goto a room. Its getting annoying how I sometimes crash after i save my totem.

I agree but even on my 9 year old PC I can handle it by doing this:
Type /room -whatever room you want- into chat
Don't press enter
After pressing the save button quickly tap enter twice