objects spazzing out the most annoying bug I placed my totem which is nothing more than a plank with a red dot on it as soon as I attach something to it it bitch slaps everybody off the map and I know for a fact it's secure on the ground

I'm sure this bug is known it would be nice if you made this number one on your list
I wait for 45 minutes to have my turn is a shaman and this happens I'm sure you now can understand my frustration

It happens because of the physics of the game.
You can avoid this by placing your next to the ground with a little gap between the two like this:


Go sure not to place them like this:


The latter one tends to cause spazzing.

Also, don't let 3 objects overlap at any point:


Try to build like this:

thz lot

you might be building like this:

build like this:

you might be building the plank in the box like this:

try doing this: