Cafe should be deleted entirely and should not come back. Filled with bullies. It made the game more toxic. No more cafe. Please. I'm begging you tfm, we can't take it anymore...

Ayumai said:

Cafe should be deleted entirely and should not come back. Filled with bullies. It made the game more toxic. No more cafe. Please. I'm begging you tfm, we can't take it anymore...

Agreed it's so fucking toxic, and the majority of the people on the cafe that are young are badly influenced, and taken advantage of as well as being targetted.

Yes, if you don't fit in prepare to be bullied. :v

Tailbrain said:

Yes, if you don't fit in prepare to be bullied. :v

I try to fit in all the time but it never works. I'm always bullied, but never irl, so its cyberbullying

All because you got a ban for 15 days

Ayumai said:

Tailbrain said:SeeHide

Yes, if you don't fit in prepare to be bullied. :v

I try to fit in all the time but it never works. I'm always bullied, but never irl, so its cyberbullying

S-s-s-same....

Cafe is toxic (not all cafers)
Plus, plenty of cafers make topics on inappropriate stuff
People get wrongfully muted/banned just because others dislike them
Cafe really needs to be watched over more carefully
I don't comment on inappropriate topics or drama-filled topics. It's best to avoid those or just stop making them

Café can be toxic, but in small communities like LV it is an extremely useful place to deliver information to the community as the forum isn't actively used here.

Tachiyukan said:

Jules said:SeeHide

Agreed it's so fucking toxic, and the majority of the people on the cafe that are young are badly influenced, and taken advantage of as well as being targetted.

Cafe most definitely has it's issues, that's undeniable, but the culture behind it cannot change until those who feed into it also change their behaviours. Those who are badly influenced are the unfortunate product of such culture, and so more positive role models are essential for impressionable users on such a platform.

Considering that you have multiple permabanned accounts due to your behaviour on café, perhaps some personal reflection would be appropriate before suggesting external changes, as you show grievance about the very kind of player you have previously been.

Break the cycle, be the kind of player you'd like to see on café.

I have been trying to behave better online in general. I feel bad about how I acted in the past, and I know why I was banned previously for inappropriate behavior, which I regret, and I was immature then. I'm still somewhat immature, but I'm definitely a lot more mature than I used to be. The most outrageous and offensive stuff I did in the past was several years ago, and I have changed since then.

I feel like I'm always being sucked into drama such as flamewars on cafe, and transformice because of my past bans, and past behavior, which sucks since it makes it hard for me to let it go, and be past it, as well as grow as a person. It feels like people on here keep trying to make me re-live past mistakes despite the plenitude of apologies I have posted on cafe, and elsewhere.

Kitten said:

All because you got a ban for 15 days

Ayumai said:SeeHide

Tailbrain said:SeeHide

Yes, if you don't fit in prepare to be bullied. :v

I try to fit in all the time but it never works. I'm always bullied, but never irl, so its cyberbullying

S-s-s-same....

I'm bullied way more in real life than online, and it sucks, but I'm hoping that I'll get to go to a different school, or that things will get better, but I'm not sure if things are going to improve it's too soon to tell.

Moonviolet said:

Cafe is toxic (not all cafers)
Plus, plenty of cafers make topics on inappropriate stuff
People get wrongfully muted/banned just because others dislike them
Cafe really needs to be watched over more carefully
I don't comment on inappropriate topics or drama-filled topics. It's best to avoid those or just stop making them

I think the main problem is that inappropriate jokes, and minor rule breaking is what gets sanctioned more than people that try to abuse the system, and commit more serious rule breaking and get away with it.

I think that cafe has a huge problem with cyber bullying, and mass reporting things that aren't breaking any rules, and delete posts just because they can. I think the cyber bullying, and player harassment are cafe's biggest problem.

I can't blame the mods for the actions of individual players breaking any of the rules, but I think mods need to look into reports, and what went down before banning, or muting anyone. I know it's hard to also decide where to draw the line, and have to make people deal with the consequences of breaking the rules, and when certain players need to be reprimanded.

Cyberbullying is not a big problem if it already has the resolution which is to log off dumbass

i think that they should remove the main game and make cafe the only thing on transformice

Kitten said:

Cyberbullying is not a big problem if it already has the resolution which is to log off dumbass

Harassing someone online, and being cruel is bullying, and the only difference is it is online. Also I have had situations where people in real life that went after me in real life started harassing me online, and I changed my username several times, and it was like the 14th time they forgot about me, and decided to leave me alone. Also I did block them, but they would make new accounts just to harass me.

I get it's easy to think you can just log off if you haven't experienced cyber bullying/online harassment. Also the fact I have every right to enjoy this game, and every part of it without being harassed like everyone else.

The better solution is just to not tolerate it, and block them, and not to reply. It's extremely hard not to reply, and I struggle with this since I get riled up easily, and it's kinda like whatever I feel in the moment is so intense that I feel numb, and detached to everything else, and I reply and cause a whole war between me, and the person being a jerk.

Jules said:

Kitten said:SeeHide

Cyberbullying is not a big problem if it already has the resolution which is to log off dumbass

Harassing someone online, and being cruel is bullying, and the only difference is it is online. Also I have had situations where people in real life that went after me in real life started harassing me online, and I changed my username several times, and it was like the 14th time they forgot about me, and decided to leave me alone. Also I did block them, but they would make new accounts just to harass me.

I get it's easy to think you can just log off if you haven't experienced cyber bullying/online harassment. Also the fact I have every right to enjoy this game, and every part of it without being harassed like everyone else.

The better solution is just to not tolerate it, and block them, and not to reply. It's extremely hard not to reply, and I struggle with this since I get riled up easily, and it's kinda like whatever I feel in the moment is so intense that I feel numb, and detached to everything else, and I reply and cause a whole war between me, and the person being a jerk.

poopchamp

Mock me if you want, but being harassed online by people that are relentless is awful, and it's just as bad as if someone were sending you letters at your house that were mean, weird, disturbing, and upsetting.

I know a lot of people think cyber-bullying is just an umbrella term for someone being rude to you a few times online, but it's not. Actual cyber-bullying is the same as actual emotional bullying, and it isn't fair for you to think that I can just change my phone number, or that just simply logging off would solve it.

Hi there, we already have a thread for cafe removal discussion, please continue your discussions here.