[EN] The Comfort Corner! |
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Estine a dit : ... Pardon? |
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Rottenappel a dit : 1st daily 10s 2nd daily 10s Dernière modification le 1560608220000 |
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Ah cheers Yukako, it's appreciated. :) |
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If only my school allowed phones then I would be coming here every school day, BUT the principle is a pussy about it |
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Sweetporcelain a dit : Update!! I found her last night! And she is alive and doing well |
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Sometimes I would be doing something like work or just trying to fall asleep then my mind would snap back to the history of an ex friend of mine. They hurt my best friend and myself and it sucks to remember them and that it was reality, not a bad dream. I want to forget and now have memories hit me out of the blue. Maybe with more time I can fully forget their rotten behaviour. |
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Sincerelymaple a dit : Maybe it's best to move on. Fake friends are disgusting and don't deserve the valuable friendship of people who care. Just trying to move your thoughts on and away from it is a good method for people who hurt you. Confrontation is also good to get out built up hurt. Maybe bring up points where they were disrespectful or lying to you and/or the friend in a respectful manner to end off the hurt mutually. It's also good to keep in mind that it could be an only chance, so try to keep your temper in check. A few friends of mine try to do this with past friends and end up popping off with a "ur a stupid whore xd im so great" when the person they were trying to talk to was just trying to come back to do what i explained. Of course, though, you can always just keep it locked up. Keeping your mind off of it for the most part can be very helpful. It'll hurt sometimes, hell it might even make you take a sad nap. But it's worth it eventually. I wish you the best of luck <3 |
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Sincerelymaple a dit : Update: it was tough but I have been coping better. Still hurts but it dulls as time goes on. Got bigger fish to fry with education and preparing for careers. To the person above, thank you I am moving on better now. I don't do confrontation but knowing they have left gives me some closure. Dernière modification le 1563770400000 |
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I want to get away. I don't know what to do. That's the main thing I need advice with. I have enough money to go somewhere else. I have enough money to manage for even a little bit. But I'm underage and not allowed to travel alone (obviously). Not saying that all of my country (Estonia) is like this, but the part I live in definitely is. Including my family. Although my mother, the one who hurt me the most for my whole childhood is finally dead, I decided to come out to my dad which obviously didn't go well. I have someone I love, and I have a best friend. The most both of them can do is support me emotionally though. I need to get away from here as fast as possible. I don't think I can handle living in this hellhole for much longer honestly. It's not that I'm like, so suicidal that if I have a knife in my hand I'll hurt myself but I don't have the biggest will to live either. I have terrible social anxiety and I don't know how to communicate with people, so online friends are the only people who were ever there for me. Some nights I feel like I'm just going insane, being trapped here with nothing but sadness. I'm genuinely tired so I don't know how much of this message makes sense but yeah. |
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i hate when random people talk about my cut scars like smh Shush . Dernière modification le 1564118940000 |
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MY LIFE IS FUCKING O V E R . I CAN'T BELIEVE MY EYES... WHY WOULD HE DO SUCH THINGS TO ME IF HE DIDN'T EVEN L O V E M E IN THE FIRST PLACE??? |
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this isnt that big of a deal but like.. im hella antisocial and i want some advice to help me socialize more..... whenever im talking to someone i just feel so nervous and idk what to talk about, im only comfortable around like 4 people, idk why i'm so nervous around others Dernière modification le 1565214960000 |
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I'm just worried he will slander me. It's been a while since we last texted each other and I don't know what he's up to. Am I overthinking everything? |
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^ Damn i know that feeling |
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@Sweetporcelain I can’t imagine how or what you’re feeling except the part not liking your body but do what you love to do, do what you WANT to do, it’s you and it’s your body and your decisions, take your time to think about things, like your gender and what you want to do about your body, and if that’s something you really want, don’t rush because you may regret it later. Come out to your family when you’re ready (if you want ofc), they may dislike it at first but hopefully they’ll support you later on. I really hope everything goes great for you and wish you all the best i prolly didnt make much sense but i tried |
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I'm walking towards having another burnout again. Sleepless nights, pills and crankiness have become part of my routine. I don't even know whether or not I do this on purpose anymore, I absolutely hate not being productive and doing nothing, even if it is to rest. Projects and projects are piling up on me, and I can't keep up the pace. It was my fault, I made this happen, and now I'm completely drained of my strength and energy. Guess what did I do; I pushed through, obliterating my body and mind once more. Honestly, at this point, I don't even care. I might as well just shred what's left of me. Don't know how or if I will survive another breakdown like this, nonetheless. I'm done. |
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Synkt a dit : Thank you I already have been trying to get my mind off it and by that, I've been sewing things together and making memes because that's what I enjoy. I really do want to get rid of the body parts that make me uncomfortable and I most likely will not have any issues with that. |