Nickyyz a dit :

This guy in my class that sits next to me is a pain in the butt. I just want to punch the kid because he's annoying and I know this is not something you do to a friend, but he's annoying. He wasn't this annoying before, but I just met the guy not like a month ago and didn't know he was this obnoxious. I feel like I'm giving him clues about how annoying he is, but he keep saying crap like, "You mad, bro?" Like he knows I'm annoyed, but he's just trying to make it worst. HALP ME. What do I do?

have you tried to ignore him

Nickyyz a dit :

This guy in my class that sits next to me is a pain in the butt. I just want to punch the kid because he's annoying and I know this is not something you do to a friend, but he's annoying. He wasn't this annoying before, but I just met the guy not like a month ago and didn't know he was this obnoxious. I feel like I'm giving him clues about how annoying he is, but he keep saying crap like, "You mad, bro?" Like he knows I'm annoyed, but he's just trying to make it worst. HALP ME. What do I do?

I would tell a teacher or you're parents.

Nickyyz a dit :

This guy in my class that sits next to me is a pain in the butt. I just want to punch the kid because he's annoying and I know this is not something you do to a friend, but he's annoying. He wasn't this annoying before, but I just met the guy not like a month ago and didn't know he was this obnoxious. I feel like I'm giving him clues about how annoying he is, but he keep saying crap like, "You mad, bro?" Like he knows I'm annoyed, but he's just trying to make it worst. HALP ME. What do I do?

If you can't ignore him, I'm sure if you speak to the teacher you can just ask to be moved. If he continues to bug you then actually report him to the teacher and they should be able to tell him to stop.

Soakitup a dit :

have you tried to ignore him

Yes, but he keeps on saying, "You mad, bro." or another variation like, "Why do you hate me?"

Micefamilies a dit :

I would tell a teacher or you're parents.

Considering I am in high school now, I don't really want to go that route. I want to learn how to deal with things on my own. :/

Thunderai a dit :

If you can't ignore him, I'm sure if you speak to the teacher you can just ask to be moved. If he continues to bug you then actually report him to the teacher and they should be able to tell him to stop.

Well, it seems like ignoring him doesn't work since he's almost everywhere I go. Like after one of my classes he walks with me to my other class because he doesn't like sitting in class and waiting for the bell to ring for the period to start. I don't know what to think of this anymore. I'm quite frankly trying to deal with this on my own. :/

Thank you guys for answering though. I guess I'll try another attempt on ignoring this dude. e.e

I'm a very jealous person, I always think about tomorrow when I should be enjoying today.. I want everything to be perfect but that never happens TO ME.. I always get judged by everything I do.. I don't know what should i do to make people accept me for who i am.. I barely have true friends in real life.. I always get this feeling that I wanna start screaming and crying.. and i guess more problems will come in the future.. But let's take care of these things first. Help me..

P.S : Sorry for my bad English.

@person with annoying stalker kid, well if you tell him how you feel he won't be confused as to whether or not you like him
it can be hard to do that so try "why are you following me?" or call him an annoying twat

Tahalechef a dit :

I'm a very jealous person, I always think about tomorrow when I should be enjoying today.. I want everything to be perfect but that never happens TO ME.. I always get judged by everything I do.. I don't know what should i do to make people accept me for who i am.. I barely have true friends in real life.. I always get this feeling that I wanna start screaming and crying.. and i guess more problems will come in the future.. But let's take care of these things first. Help me..

P.S : Sorry for my bad English.

you should try to relax and just live for today instead of tomorrow
you should always plan ahead if you can, but it's no good to stress yourself out over every little thing
and if you can't make friends irl because no one will accept you for who you are, then try to put yourself out there more and find some people to get close to

Soakitup a dit :

@person with annoying stalker kid, well if you tell him how you feel he won't be confused as to whether or not you like him
it can be hard to do that so try "why are you following me?" or call him an annoying twat

That's the thing, I'm always worried about hurting feelings and coming off as a total b*tch. You're right though, I guess I need to own up somehow. It's going to be also harder because this kid used to be really chill, not obnoxious, and also my friend. :/

yeah maybe ask him "what happened"
maybe he has some weird crush on you also

I keep crying.
All I can hear is my mom puking, then laying down, then puking.
I don't know what to do.. I've tried to not think of it, but I still cry. ;_;

Soakitup a dit :

yeah maybe ask him "what happened"
maybe he has some weird crush on you also

Yeah, I'm going to ask him why he's like that because it's getting to the point where I just can't stand him anymore. Well, I'm pretty sure he did before if you count a text message saying, "If I asked you out what would you say?" It got pretty weird after that.

Nickyyz a dit :

Yes, but he keeps on saying, "Are you mad, bro." or another variation like, "Why do you hate me?"
Considering I am in high school now, I don't really want to go that route. I want to learn how to deal with things on my own. :/
Well, it seems like ignoring him doesn't work since he's almost everywhere I go. Like after one of my classes he walks with me to my other class because he doesn't like sitting in class and waiting for the bell to ring for the period to start. I don't know what to think of this anymore. I'm quite frankly trying to deal with this on my own. :/

Well you could try just being completely honest and tell him that his behaviour is starting to annoy you. Even if he just gets mad (and even though he might already know that it annoys you) maybe it'll help things? Sometimes even if someone's your friend and you don't want to hurt them you've just got to be honest :/

Tahalechef a dit :

I'm a very jealous person, I always think about tomorrow when I should be enjoying today.. I want everything to be perfect but that never happens TO ME.. I always get judged by everything I do.. I don't know what should i do to make people accept me for who i am.. I barely have true friends in real life.. I always get this feeling that I wanna start screaming and crying.. and i guess more problems will come in the future.. But let's take care of these things first. Help me..

1. As for the jealous thing, everyone gets jealous now and then. When you start feeling jealous about something or of someone, just try and think of some good things that you have or good things that have happened to you.

2. For the perfect thing, I don't think anythings ever completely perfect. (I mean it can be perfect to you and that's all that matters but anyways) Just try really hard at everything you do :3 good things will happen if you work hard enough.

3. If people can't accept you for who you are then that's their mistake. You should always stay true to yourself and not care if someone else doesn't like it.

4. There are lots of times I feel like that. Sometimes I like punch a pillow or just sit on my bed and try to calm down. Although sometimes you should have a good cry in my opinion :3
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Sorry I'm not the best at giving advice but I hope this helped you guys!

Flutterbest a dit :

Well you could try just being completely honest and tell him that his behaviour is starting to annoy you. Even if he just gets mad (and even though he might already know that it annoys you) maybe it'll help things? Sometimes even if someone's your friend and you don't want to hurt them you've just got to be honest :/

Thanks a lot, I'll definitely consider this. I guess he has to know what a pain in the sh*t he can be. ._.

Nickyyz a dit :

Well, it seems like ignoring him doesn't work since he's almost everywhere I go. Like after one of my classes he walks with me to my other class because he doesn't like sitting in class and waiting for the bell to ring for the period to start. I don't know what to think of this anymore. I'm quite frankly trying to deal with this on my own. :/

Dealing with it on your own clearly isn't helping. Thus I would say do tell a member of staff at your school to have a word with him. If he really is making annoying you this much then you should speak up about it.

Tahalechef a dit :

I'm a very jealous person, I always think about tomorrow when I should be enjoying today.. I want everything to be perfect but that never happens TO ME.. I always get judged by everything I do.. I don't know what should i do to make people accept me for who i am.. I barely have true friends in real life.. I always get this feeling that I wanna start screaming and crying.. and i guess more problems will come in the future.. But let's take care of these things first. Help me..

You have to learn to take each day as it comes. Worrying about the future will solve nothing for you, and will cause you such stress that it affects what you ARE doing. How old are you out of interest?

Erikadeedee a dit :

I keep crying.
All I can hear is my mom puking, then laying down, then puking.
I don't know what to do.. I've tried to not think of it, but I still cry. ;_;

Go and see if she's ok?

I guess so.
I'm just worried about tomorrow morning, and school. I might not even be able to sleep because of just thinking of how bad she might be sick. ;-;

Thanks Flutterbest and Soakitup. :)

Thunderai a dit :

You have to learn to take each day as it comes. Worrying about the future will solve nothing for you, and will cause you such stress that it affects what you ARE doing. How old are you out of interest?

I'm 14 now. I know, that seems strange.

Erikadeedee a dit :

I guess so.
I'm just worried about tomorrow morning, and school. I might not even be able to sleep because of just thinking of how bad she might be sick. ;-;

well maybe try to go see if there's anything she needs and try to help her even though it's gross to hear someone puking and see it and smell it

Tahalechef a dit :

Thanks Flutterbest and Soakitup. :)


I'm 14 now. I know, that seems strange for a person in that age.

it's not strange :P everyone has issues

thanks soak and rai
i got her sick, i was sick on friday
i feel really bad; i hope shes ok

Erikadeedee a dit :

thanks soak and rai
i got her sick, i was sick on friday
i feel really bad; i hope shes ok

don't feel bad about it you can't help it

Thunderai a dit :

Dealing with it on your own clearly isn't helping. Thus I would say do tell a member of staff at your school to have a word with him. If he really is making annoying you this much then you should speak up about it.

I understand what you're saying, but I honestly don't think a teacher would do crap about it. It's not that serious that I want or need to tell a teacher because quite frankly when I'm older and some person is annoying me (unless you know it's in a stalker way) then I'll have to deal with it on my own. I guess you can say I'm just preparing myself, so I know how to handle this kind of crap in the future.

shes sleeping in bed now, i think
she hasnt puked for a while from what ive heard
claps silently