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I think you should try facing the fear and going for it- like we said before try making YOURSELF proud. If you cry and panic, that's fine, it happens to lots of people! If you panic and you get teased- tell the teacher you're being harassed. Or, try talking to the teacher and see if you could sing privately on stage?
Do what /you/ think is the right thing to do.

I, i don't think i can. Its a fear that has been apart of me for so long. I know that some girls cried, and i also know that the teacher got mad at them and told them to tough up. I'm going to throw in all the mainstream excuses about why i can't, and i know i should try it, but..
I just recently started therapy and i..
I already asked the teacher about it, and she said no. I'm just going to think about what to do for a while.

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Soo.. um
Ive worked really hard for this math test, considering i have dyscalculia. It was really hard but i got a B! It was my second positive grade in 2 years. When i told my parents, i only got a "good job". They didn't talk about it anymore than that. That really hurt, but i got over it. Today my sister scored in a soccer game, and my parents went crazy, cheering and talking about it all the time. They are not sportfans and my sister is older than me. This is really bugging me. It feels like a heartbreak, haha.

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My mom used to have the exact some problems as me when she was my age, she also does my homework with me.
It's not that it's only with this test, they often put my sister infront of me. But thank you! That helped :)

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noice thread

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well, i got into a panic attack and said some things i dont remember, and now suddenly everybody is caring. somebody who never wanted to talk to me again feels forced to talk to me because they think im gonna just lose it now and its just stressful. i dont want to hurt anybody and all i want is for things to be normal, not forced.

First off, sorry to hear that! Hope you feel better. I don't think there is anything you can do about the caring, people just do that. But if people are actually afraid, you should explain to them how a panic attack works and all. When i had my first panic attack it really gave my friends a scare. After i explained to them what was up and how it works, they understood.
Idk if this helped, but well.


Another thing sorry haha

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With music class i have to sing infront of the class, on stage with a microphone.
When i first heard about it i got a panic attack. Luckily the lesson where we had to sing i was absent, but i just have to do it the lesson after the holidays. I'm scared as fuck, haha. I'm afraid that i will cry and panic infront of class, which i did a year ago and left me with alot of weird looks and teasing. I'm actually sure that i will panick and flip in class. I will sob and try everything to escape, and i don't think my class should see that. I'm currently in therapy for this fear. But the singing is a MUST. I don't know what to do, i've considered just not doing it and getting an F, since my parents dont care about music.

maybe you could practice, sing infront of a few people first. Or you can imagine you're singing infront of lots of people when you're singing alone.

^ Skyla has a great idea, actually!

If it doesn't go as you planned, just say you tried. Trying is better than not trying at all, isn't it?

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break ups suck especially with my little problem lmao, been teetering between mad, murderous, manically depressed and wanting to do other bad things for 24h now

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break ups suck especially with my little problem lmao, been teetering between mad, murderous, manically depressed and wanting to do other bad things for 24h now

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oh my gosh haru
i really wish i can comfort you but
idk how... ; ;

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I hope you begin to feel better soon, Haru.

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i got slightly lonely so i want to talk to my friend
so I text to her"Hi (friend's name), how are you?"
and she replied with
"kys you -really offensive stuff-"
and then I was really confused
so i decide to text her back with "did i do something"
she replied with "you should know you bitch"
I thought back to all the stuff we've done lately
and I could not think of a single thing I done wrong to her
and the last thing she said was "I hope you -some really offensive stuff"
and that made me tear up a bit

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i'll tell you rn that she also called me the N word and definitely not in the "nice way"