General Advice Thread |
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Erikadeedee a dit : Given it's your Mum, if she is really bad she'll visit a doctor so that shouldn't worry you so much :) Nickyyz a dit : That's a silly way of looking at it. Nothing can 'prepare' you for being stalked in there future, nor will you have to deal with it alone (You can tell you boss at work for example, the police if things get bad). If you could deal with it you wouldn't have come here asking for advice right :P Thus I say you should tell someone. Tahalechef a dit : Isn't strange, everyone deals with things. But I would say that since you're young you shouldn't worry SO much about how others perceive you (Unless they're bullying you for example). You have years to go to meet new people who will accept you for who you are. |
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Thunderai a dit : I never looked at it that way actually. You kinda opened my eyes xD. If I can't handle the matter at hand, then I'll be sure to tell someone. If this kid doesn't get it after I give him the talk, then I guess I know I'm not the crazy one. |
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Thunderai a dit : Well, I won't lie, but I do get bullied sometimes.. I don't know if they keep annoying me just to make me feel sad or maybe because I done something wrong to them.. |
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Nickyyz a dit : Indeed! You never have to prepare to be alone. I always maintain that there's always someone out there for everyone. Tahalechef a dit : As mentioned above, the best thing you can do is inform someone as to what is happening if it's really bad. I'm sure you haven't done anything to them on purpose and they're just being morons as per all bullies. |
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I have recently done and said some stupid stuff to my crush, but when ever I ask him why he stays with me he tells me cause he loves me and he loves me cause I'm me, what does this mean. :c I don't know what to do and it is stressing me out like no other. Please help. :c |
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it means he likes you the way you normally act. like say im very goofy, but its my crush, i would want to act mature. See what i mean? |
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My tribemates are driving me crazy. They keep making me the victim of all of their sex jokes and they constantly change my rank without permission/even though I did nothing wrong. Any advice? <.< |
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Adiline a dit : Fight back, change their rank and talk about some crap they don't want to hear :3 Nah, just try to avoid them or something |
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Adiline a dit : If it persists and you really can't stand it just leave the tribe. To everyone: Can I post pokemon teams here for advice? :3 |
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Twerewolf a dit : If he's saying things like that, then tell him how you feel about him? Adiline a dit : Leave. Eavenne a dit : You would probably get a better response in the Pokemon thread. |
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Adiline a dit : This has already been said, but i'd like to beat the dead horse on this one. Why would you stay somewhere where people are being mean to you? Find a nicer tribe. |
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Tomdizzy a dit : Yeah I would but my best friend created this tribe so I wouldn't want to be rude to him :/ |
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Hey so um there's this Guy And he really loves me and all they but he doesn't have the guts to say something - how do I say "it's alright PLEasE SAY SOMETHING" without being gushy to him? I'd way prefer that he "makes a move" instead of me because I'm a twat and a romantic and it's the way I am. Help? |
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Immagetcheez a dit : If you know he likes you, and you like him, then just ask to speak with him and explain how you know he feels, you feel the same etc etc etc |
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hard to fight urge to smoke what do and i'm poor so no e cigs |
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Adiline a dit : So tell your friend his tribemates are rude and you didn't want to deal with them. I'm sure he/she will understand. Plenty of my friends have left my tribe because it used to be pure insanity, and to be honest i never blamed any of them lol |
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Annefromva a dit : chew gum if you still want to smoke swallow the gum and put a new one in your mouth until the urge to smoke goes away keep swallowing gum you will feel the pain of swallowing gum |
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Unicorm a dit : ... Actual advice would be to see a doctor and ask about less expensive ways of quitting. Gum, patches, e-cigs if you can afford them etc |
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Twerewolf a dit : Well,if you don't tunderstand it,how can I?You should ask him what he means so you can understand it! Btw,I have a Q. too. I have these friends in TFM that says I like this other guy,but I really hate him.They keep teasing me and when I tell them to stop they don't!I really want to know a way to beat them at their game.What should I say to stump them and make them stop!? Please help me!( |
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Messeessem a dit : Ignore them and it will no longer be fun for them to joke about it |