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i lit feel safe no where rn hggfgfdgfdgf
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galaxywaves a dit :
i feel as if i'm slowly giving up on life. help?

You can try finding things that you like or passionate about and focus on them? :o
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galaxywaves a dit :
i feel as if i'm slowly giving up on life. help?

You most likely heard this before, and don't want to hear it again, but here's something for you.
Sleep, play games you like, watch your favorite YouTubers, look up images of your favorite animal (Or an animal you find adorable), read, write, watch TV, etc. Just simply do something that makes you happy and will boost your mood.
Now let's get deeper.
Realize that you won't be able to do these things that make you happy if you've given up on life.

If you mean that you feel like you're giving up on life in the dark way, just remember this (and I know it's very cliche and cheesy), things do get better. It just takes time, even if it's a year or two. As said earlier, just do something that makes you happy.
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I can be a nice person, but recently I've been pretty sad, sad to the point where I start becoming aggressive. I get easily aggravated and don't want to talk to anyone. I feel like I should never speak my opinion. I also feel like I ruin someones day, Whenever I try to seek a friend they don't know how to reply and tend to Yell at me for asking a question. Its come down to the point where I cry a lot more and stress much more than I had been. I will hide and be scared to talk to people.

I fear to say another word.
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I feel like im dying on the inside, slowly.
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Today my mom dropped the big bomb on me
The way i am right now wont attract any love or friends. She told me they can sense my fear. And i cant feel more like shit. I want to scream "i know" at my mom, and yet cry that im not the only one thinking that.
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oops looks like i'm coming back to this thread
so um
i've been thinking lately that not many people care about me, I mean, I know at least two people I know really care about me, but, it's my other friends that i'm thinking don't care about me anymore. I don't know why, really. I guess it's because I think one of my friends cares more for my other friend (we're pretty much a group of friends). I just feel that way sometimes, it's really stupid to get sad over, I know, but still.

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xxtoothless a dit :
oops looks like i'm coming back to this thread
so um
i've been thinking lately that not many people care about me, I mean, I know at least two people I know really care about me, but, it's my othe friends that i'm thinking don't care about me anymore. I don't know why, really. I guess it's because I think one of my friends cares more for my other friend (we're pretty much a group of friends). I just feel that way sometimes, it's really stupid to get sad over, I know, but still.

Omg, I felt like this last summer, it sucks right :( Luckily I started to get few but stable friends later, hope it's your case too :)
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Hello, yeah I do need comfort

I'll make it simple, facts and how I feel


- My mom now has a boyfriend - It's great I get along with him
- He has a daughter who is 8 - She's nice but annoying
- Her BF often comes to our house, but when he comes with his daughter I'll get notified 30 min before - I hate this.
- I can't get myself motivated to be productive unless I'm under stress and ALONE (I'm trying to fix that) - But that shit ain't helping.
- My room is a total mess - I'm OK with it.
- My mom can't stand this mess - She'll clean up every week which annoys me.
- I can't get my shit done because they (she) are intruding my personal space - I have to entertain her and I'm dying.

The thing is :
I can't get my shit done in general so when they come I feel really stressed because I know I can't work.
I'm giving up on things and I don't even bother to clean my room anymore.
I hate when people are changing my habits in a brutal way like how my mom does when she cleans my room.
I've been socializing with the trash bins outside my house because I come here to take my stuff back.

I'm so fucking stressed at the moment my body can't take this anymore, I have HUGE abdominal pain, I'm tired as fuck, I barely stand up sometimes... I just don't feel well.
Now when my mom comes to me to say that they are coming in less than 30 minutes I'm starting to have a kinda panic attack (this might become a thing because I never had these before).
I'll start to cry and want to disappear in the whole of the universe when I see my room clean (which means things have been thrown away).
I can't sleep, I can't work, I can't listen to classes.
I've been loosing a shit ton of stuff without realizing it.

I feel like I'm going crazy, I need help.



I currently feel like suffocating and I just want to sleep.
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i had a friendship break apart today, and im still mildly upset about it
over text my friend said she wasnt my friend anymore(note that this is the 10th time she said she wasnt gonna be my friend so i wasn't too gullible at first); i asked her why and she said "im sorry bye" and my mistake was that i responded with anger "ok lmao i dont care" and then things went downward when she told me to shut the fuck up
when i told her i didnt care anymore and said "good luck out there man, cya" she replied with how she would like to see how i turn out in the future. now if you're a kid with good grades and good behavior this isnt really a problem, but for me im down in the dumps with my grades. im failing math and have gone to summer school for 2 years in a row because of it, and that text gave me a weight on my back i can never roll off
i wanna forget about this, can anybody help?
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i had a friendship break apart today, and im still mildly upset about it
over text my friend said she wasnt my friend anymore(note that this is the 10th time she said she wasnt gonna be my friend so i wasn't too gullible at first); i asked her why and she said "im sorry bye" and my mistake was that i responded with anger "ok lmao i dont care" and then things went downward when she told me to shut the fuck up
when i told her i didnt care anymore and said "good luck out there man, cya" she replied with how she would like to see how i turn out in the future. now if you're a kid with good grades and good behavior this isnt really a problem, but for me im down in the dumps with my grades. im failing math and have gone to summer school for 2 years in a row because of it, and that text gave me a weight on my back i can never roll off
i wanna forget about this, can anybody help?

sTAY CALM,DRAW,PLAY UNDERTALE.LISTEN TO HIS THEME
EVERYDAY
AND YOU'LL FORGET IT

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Swirlfire a dit :
i had a friendship break apart today, and im still mildly upset about it
over text my friend said she wasnt my friend anymore(note that this is the 10th time she said she wasnt gonna be my friend so i wasn't too gullible at first); i asked her why and she said "im sorry bye" and my mistake was that i responded with anger "ok lmao i dont care" and then things went downward when she told me to shut the fuck up
when i told her i didnt care anymore and said "good luck out there man, cya" she replied with how she would like to see how i turn out in the future. now if you're a kid with good grades and good behavior this isnt really a problem, but for me im down in the dumps with my grades. im failing math and have gone to summer school for 2 years in a row because of it, and that text gave me a weight on my back i can never roll off
i wanna forget about this, can anybody help?

losing a friend sucks by itself, even more so when the friendship ends badly
distractions help when trying to forget something, like treating yourself to some nice snacks and settling down to watch something for awhile. what also can help is trying to put her comment into perspective. she's most likely said what she did out of spite with the intent to hurt you, picking something she knows is a big deal to you (and understandably so). she's reminded you of one of your own major worries.

it's important to remember her opinion is no longer relevant to you. she's not your friend anymore and what she thinks shouldn't matter (though I know it can be hard to shake off other's feelings sometimes). I guess what helps me at times like that is trying to think that my bad feelings about what someone said aren't permanent and she and what she thinks will hopefully matter less and less to you as time goes on with you guys not talking so much anymore.

oh yeah, and finally, I'm still your friend (if you want me to be) and I'm always here if you ever wanna talk or vent about stuff in pms or whatever.
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I feel like I'm gonna be alone forever
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No matter what happened, what you did or what someone else did, you should know you're all wonderful and you should feel great about it, so don't be sad, everything is going to be okay, and it's hug time. *hugs*
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this thread was a really good idea
ive really just sorta given up on alot and i cant break the feeling of really bad stress, i constantly break down if im not occupied and i want that to change
???: I'm extremely unmotivated and I feel like breaking down and crying constantly.

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I hope you are all feeling better! I'm horrible at comforting, so i won't even try, but stay safe folks

Uh well
recently something happened in my friend group, and it basically resulted into me disagreeing and they weren't happy about it. But they just dropped it..
But it feels like certain people that were the most annoyed by me disagreeing are more distant to me now. Ignoring things i say etc...
Should i confront them about it? I don't want to be that anxious friend, but i AM that friend.
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i figured it out it's ok

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in order to feel even remotely happy i have to
cut off contact with everyone i know, no matter
if i hurt them or not. i just have to do it :(
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Snowandachee a dit :
this thread was a really good idea
ive really just sorta given up on alot and i cant break the feeling of really bad stress, i constantly break down if im not occupied and i want that to change
???: I'm extremely unmotivated and I feel like breaking down and crying constantly.

yo snow, wish I could give you some actual help/advice there, but still wanna say I'm sorry to hear it
though I will say crying once in awhile can actually be helpful to relieve stress so maybe it'd be be helpful to pick a time when you can nap/sleep after, won't be bothered and give into that urge, see if it makes you feel any better

not sure what the stress is mainly related to but, if it's school, then marking your calender (if you haven't already) for when you get breaks. looking forward to them and counting down the days might help a bit. rewarding yourself for doing stuff, like a nice snack/spending money on something you like, can help with motivation - even more so if you can get a parent involved, like asking them if they'd be willing to give you something reasonable for doing x amount of work

Boefie a dit :
Uh well
recently something happened in my friend group, and it basically resulted into me disagreeing and they weren't happy about it. But they just dropped it..
But it feels like certain people that were the most annoyed by me disagreeing are more distant to me now. Ignoring things i say etc...
Should i confront them about it? I don't want to be that anxious friend, but i AM that friend.

Imho yeah, confront them about it on a one-to-one basis. Could ask something like "hey, I feel like you've been distant with me lately - be honest, is it related to what I said before?" from there it's up to you whether you wanna talk through it with them over what happened, apologise for what you said and try to mend the friendship, or defend your viewpoint/disagreement(?) and try to get them to see your side (at the risk of them just asking for it to be dropped and continuing to be distant, though)

good luck either way, hope everything goes alright
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this has been happening to me for a while now, and i want to spill it, so here it goes

i feel like my friends dont care about me anymore.
whenever they're feeling down, i try my best to emphasize with their circumstances and give them the best advice i could but nowadays all that they do is just turn me off, or pretend to listen to me but they never get interested and turn on into someone else. whenever i achieve something great, and feel like i could show it to them, their only response is 'i dont care'. sometimes they just think im not there at all, or that i dont even exist. they dont take me seriously at all, and especially when i want to spend time or talk with someone, they neglect me like ive did something very bad to them (when i did not), and this makes me feel really left out, since the only way that i can get real energized is when i socialize with people throughout the day. (extroverts' nature yo)

this is not an 'attention-seeking' problem, yet sadly people percieve it as that, but believe me, this is a different story.
now i dont want to hurt anyone for not paying attention to me when i need them, it's fine, i can understand that kind of reply and move on, but when it happens frequently, it gets very annoying, and it's like im being forcely disconnected from this world. i don't want this kind of person who tells me to 'get over it' and meet new friends. well sure, i could do that, but this problem is very extreme itself and i want my friends to think that im worth it, that im the kind of person who they'd like to meet, the kind of person that'll always be there for them when they need her. i just want someone to cope with my situation with comfort and make it all better, i just want to feel loved again, and not taken by granted.

tl;dr im very lonely, and that i dont think im enough to this world
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