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Mynerdyways
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Iceswirl a dit :
One of my accounts was Identified and its no longer a secret that it's actually me
I wanted it to be a secret but they happend.
I have been humiliated on this Publicly on this fourm and skype because of this.
I do things on that account that I Don't Dare to do on my own account like kpop seventeen profile pics of that hot guy or something....
I don't know what to do or how to feel after this experience...
I just Don't...
They broke me to the point where it cant be restored. I'm not interested into talking to them again .

why are you ashamed that you like those things? you're not alone in liking them.
while i would be upset if my identity was revealed, it's ok. i don't see why people would make fun of you for it. heck, i even have multiple accounts, as do many other people.
block them on skype or report them on here if they're harassing you.


on this arguement goin on im on the fence of who i want to be siding with.

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basically, if you aren't coming here to comfort/ be comforted, you shouldn't post here at all
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bagelbit a dit :
basically, if you aren't coming here to comfort/ be comforted, you shouldn't post here at all

End of story.
Seriously, move on at this point. Want to talk about it? Fine. Put us all in a group chat. But don't do it here.
If this continues you have some major nerve and it's going to piss me off and I'm trying very hard to follow with both sides.

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[Modéré par Calysis, raison : Requested.]

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I was in an argument with another player in FlurryClan, and they claimed that I was "bullying" them. After a while, the argument started going into the tribe chat. I decided to log off, but I still feel like shit. I don't know what to do.

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This still isn't relevant to the major idea to this thread.

@Pickled
I'm sorry this tribe drama is happening to you.
I hope it blows over soon. :^(
Maybe give it some time? Talk it out with the other member?
Try making a compromise so a decision to make everyone at peace again can come along.

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bagelbit a dit :
basically, if you aren't coming here to comfort/ be comforted, you shouldn't post here at all

i'm also going to agree with dap and say that if you still need to discuss it, put it in a group chat
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can y'all just leave it alone you're making him upset again?

pickledpink a dit :
I was in an argument with another player in FlurryClan, and they claimed that I was "bullying" them. After a while, the argument started going into the tribe chat. Other players were sick of it, attacking both of us. I decided to log off, but I still feel like shit. I don't know what to do.

try to apologise to them whatever you were doing. that'll be the best way to go.

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pickledpink a dit :
I was in an argument with another player in FlurryClan, and they claimed that I was "bullying" them. After a while, the argument started going into the tribe chat. Other players were sick of it, attacking both of us. I decided to log off, but I still feel like shit. I don't know what to do.

I use to be part of Flurryclan~

You could inbox IceRiver and talk to her(that's if she still leader) or anyone you could trust with your feelings
As for the people attacking you, ignore them and let them calm down
Do the command: /mt

If you think you did something awful to that person, apologize. You may feel a bit better.

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Daapplehead a dit :
This still isn't relevant to the major idea to this thread.

@Pickled
I'm sorry this tribe drama is happening to you.
I hope it blows over soon. :^(
Maybe give it some time? Talk it out with the other member?
Try making a compromise so a decision to make everyone at peace again can come along.

mynerdyways a dit :
can y'all just leave it alone you're making him upset again?

pickledpink a dit :
I was in an argument with another player in FlurryClan, and they claimed that I was "bullying" them. After a while, the argument started going into the tribe chat. Other players were sick of it, attacking both of us. I decided to log off, but I still feel like shit. I don't know what to do.

try to apologise to them whatever you were doing. that'll be the best way to go.

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pickledpink a dit :
I was in an argument with another player in FlurryClan, and they claimed that I was "bullying" them. After a while, the argument started going into the tribe chat. Other players were sick of it, attacking both of us. I decided to log off, but I still feel like shit. I don't know what to do.

I use to be part of Flurryclan~

You could inbox IceRiver and talk to her(that's if she still leader) or anyone you could trust with your feelings
As for the people attacking you, ignore them and let them calm down
Do the command: /mt

If you think you did something awful to that person, apologize. You may feel a bit better.

Thank you.
I apologized to the person who I was arguing with, then we both apologized to FlurryClan. We feel much better right now.
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(Psst guys please do not argue anymore and continue this in PM if you wish. This is a comfort thread and I'd like if people felt at ease posting rather than scared that they will start something or get negative replies. I will go through these and possibly ask for sents to remove them when appropriate. I am warning a few of you (you know very well who you are) that if you start this up again I will have to ask you not to post anymore in the future. Please think before you start an entire flamewar.

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Birdluv a dit :
❯ Do not drag drama here. Here it is either comfort or be comforted, any negativity or flame-baiting will not be tolerated.

Added rule-please follow it in the future!

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Mynerdyways
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so recently i haven't felt too great
theres been a lot of things going on and i dont know what to say or do about it
i feel like anything i say is the wrong thing
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Does anyone else have random times of the day where it's hard to breathe and you feel like utter hell? Just had one. Anxiety attacks for absolutely no reason is the worst.
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Anxiety attacks are usually a response to stressors... Panic attacks on the other hand don't have to come in reaction to a stressor. It's often unprovoked and unpredictable. You might be having those, if you can't identify a cause for the attack. There are also lots of different types of anxiety attacks, so it could very well be anxiety over panic. Classification also depends on specific symptoms too... Really sorry you're going through that though, panic attacks are probably some of the worst experiences I've ever had. :(

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Satash a dit :
Does anyone else have random times of the day where it's hard to breathe and you feel like utter hell? Just had one. Anxiety attacks for absolutely no reason is the worst.

I used to experience this all the time, but less now
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Hello hello

Is that normal that I'm having an excessive amount of "déjà-vu" recently ?
It's been near 3 weeks since I'm having at least an episode of "déjà vu" every two days, which is totally contradictory to my logic since it is impossible that I've done that before and I'm aware of that, but I just can't get rid of those "déjà-vu" ...
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Lobolove a dit :
Hello hello

Is that normal that I'm having an excessive amount of "déjà-vu" recently ?
It's been near 3 weeks since I'm having at least an episode of "déjà vu" every two days, which is totally contradictory to my logic since it is impossible that I've done that before and I'm aware of that, but I just can't get rid of those "déjà-vu" ...
Help

For me it happens alot , most of my déjà-vu-s come from the dreams i dont remember but were stored in my unconscious or my brain trying to piece together parts of information trying to make up a memory on its own . Something just triggers it , don't be worried tho, it goes as quickly as sudden as it comes.




I got ignored on the last page which is always nice
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Ilingirl a dit :
oh boy i just remembered this exists

Im a depressed teenager with nothing to live for other than 2 persons and a rabbit .

I have a shitty mom that prefers to go out with her friends for hours than check up on me , she does it just because she feels guilty i was an accident . she just makes food and cleans up , i have no feelings towards her . she was never there for me in my childhood because she was depressed and took medication; She always hints im the reason she never achieved her dreams
My dad is a manipulative and lying man that stalks me and my mom , even after they got divorced . He buys my affection and he was almost never there either in my childhood because of his job . I hate him less since he never judges and supports my decisions and hobbies , unlike my mom , her biggest fear is being judged , she always complains about my actions , clothes or interests . She hates it when im indifferent or careless of her yelling and says im disrespectful . I have no real affection for anyone on my family other than 2 distant cousins . Most of my family is uneducated and religious , homophobic and racist morons .
I lack affection to most things and I lack emotion , not being able to simpathise with shitty teenager problems or others happiness .
I am antisocial and surive off coffee and junk food , working like a dog at school and being told its not good enough , waiting to get out of a shitty cigarette smoke reeking apartament .
I scare people because of my pokerface and my sarcasm which i never mind
I am also very direct with people , telling them the truth in any situation , either telling them they are morons or annoying .
I know i will never succed in life because i live in a shitty country with no oportunities and i would rather die a hurrendous death than be an office worker
My mom triest to push down my throath the ideea that i have many complexes and im traumatised because of their divorce when I couldnt care for that trivial thing any less.
I have only 1 friend irl that i care about thats as fucked up as me and one online
The only reason i didnt kill myself so far is because death as an endless pit of darkness is boring
I like nothing about me ranging from my art to my appearence
Yes , I tried going to a psychologist , they told me Im faking depression and that im too rational to be sad over my life
Yes I tried getting outside and making friends and doing activities
The only thing i havent done is taking pills
Ok im done with ranting


This is really long Im sorry

there are a lot of shitty psychologists out there, I've dealt with them too. don't give up hope because you find one or two bad ones (a lot of school counselors can be terrible too). I don't know what the system's like in Romania but if it's free or feasible to get help there like it is in the UK, then keep looking.

in situations like yours, perhaps the best thing you can do is make goals for the future. you said there's no hope you'll ever make a decent living in your country because of limited opportunities but know that's not necessarily true. you're (I'm assuming) young and you're in school so, unless you have to spend all your money paying for your own meals & clothes right now, you can start saving up money. if you've got your own paypal/bank account, there's other ways you can make a small bit of money online too, like clicking ads and doing surveys.

I see your art's really good, and you do commissions, so if you focus on improving it and trying to make money out of that you can start saving up a small fund for your future plans. whatever they may be. hate your mother? save up to move out.

I'm not saying moving out is advisable & 100% the thing to do, it's just an example. what I mean is, with how you feel right now, seems like a glimmer of hope of a better life in the future could go a long way to helping you get motivated to get through your days, do schoolwork, work on drawing, etc. so my advice would be look into getting yourself more independence from your mother, saving up, and planning ahead to get out of your current situation.
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