[EN] The Comfort Corner!

#1961

@raindragon33

please try to reach out to your guardians/parents for help. that sounds really stressful and if you’re self-harming because of it you need to get rid of something in your life that’s holding you down enough to do that. there’s not much i can say besides that and that it’s normal to feel this way sometimes or to have a period of time feeling like that. i know how it feels to be pressured, 2 years ago i felt the same.

try to also take care of yourself, whether it’s going outside for at least 15 minutes a day and then progress to an hour slowly, to just taking long showers or baths. i’ve found that if you can find a small bit of spare time, taking care of yourself makes things all the better.

@xinaug

it’s good that you have someone to depend on but just having one person, especially with depression, isnt as functional as someone without it. i’m glad you two are relying on each other tho. before i get any further, i just want to say people experience different things with depression. they all share one thing in common: they make you miserable. whether you think you have depression or not, remember that it may not be as severe as someone who’s suicidal, but it still matters that you’re happy. we all face our own problems and while sometimes they may be less or more important than yours, they all are important.

anyway, you said you didn’t want therapy but i recommend it if you feel unmotivated and (forgive me if i got it wrong, i just thought this is what you meant) a little emotionless. these are common symptoms of depression, getting help as soon as you can is important. secondly, you said that asian culture doesn’t admire weaknesses, but whether you decide you want therapy or not i recommend talking to a trusted adult, family member, or your guardians/parents about it.

you mentioned that you’re more of a lone wolf too, but if you feel this way i recommend making more friends. either that, or you could do more things you love or go outside more. these things can help a lot more than you think.

#1962

Roosi a dit :
i have a gay crush on a straight person
i am basically fucked

same

#1963

i didnt post this

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#1964

this thread is blessed,

#1965

#1966

6 characters

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#1967

I need to be thrown into anger management therapy

#1968

@Spazmycat

Spazmycat a dit :
I don't care if you quote this or not ;;
Came out to my family as a transboy and they didn't accept me. They actually put emphasis on "her" and "she" whenever they referred to me just to say that I'm not a boy. I fought back tears but eventually exploded right there in front of them which made me feel terrible. I refuse to talk to or look at my family The worse part is that my older brother is also a transboy and they accepted him. They bought him a binder, they legally changed his name and gender, they got him T-shots. Why did they accept him, but not me?
I've had depression and anxiety for so long that I can't even remember a time I didn't have it. Even as a 5 year old kid, I knew I was sad and there was something wrong. I'm 15 now and it's only gotten worse. My brother was this age when he said something about how he felt. My brother never had anxiety or depression and he still doesn't.
As soon as I got home, I went right to my room and was unresponsive to my family. Just sat here on my bed in a dark and silent room, head glued to my hands. It took a while but I eventually unlocked my door then fell into a depression nap which only helped slightly. I'm trying to listen to up-beat music now but I just really don't know.
I already was in a depressive episode before I said anything and then they made it 10x worse. I thought they were going to be accepting of me because they were to my brother. I couldn't have been so fucking wrong. All of my friends were so supportive and they were so sure it would've gone well. They were wrong, but I'm not mad at them. I'm glad they were so supportive. I know where 3 of my friends live but they're kind of far and with all this snow, I just can't dip anywhere. Fuck this.
I feel as if I actually will be tipped over my edge soon.

that sucks, man
but seems like the best would be to either wait until you're legal and/or financially independant or go to live with another family member who accepts you (like an aunt/uncle, grandparent, etc)
i'd tell you it might change soon (they might just be shocked bc they have TWO trans sons and don't fully accept it YET) but instead, i'll tell you to find support groups irl and online bc it might not change, and especially since you're depressed, you need as much support as you can get. Tumblr is a really good place to find support and trans friends who experience similar stuff. I wish you all the best.

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As a lesbian, how do i stop feeling guilty for finding girls pretty? i'm so used to lesbians being compared to predatory straight men i'm scared i'm being predatory too, even if i'm super proud of being gay.

#1969

uhh nvm actually

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#1970

Wil Wheaton wrote about his anxiety and depression a couple of days ago, and it's definitely worth the read from someone so many people look up to

https://medium.com/@wilw/my-name-is-wil-wheaton-i-live-with-chronic-depression-and-generalized-anxiety-i-am-not-ashamed-8f693f9c0af1

#1971

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#1972

[Modéré par Batt_mellamy, raison : Unnecessary.]

#1973

this is place is liked heaven but for tfm players

#1974

Hello. I’m so glad to see this thread still in use, that’s wonderful you all are so open and helpful for eachother! <3 stay strong, and remember you are loved.
Every day is a new day full of new opportunity and adventures!

e; just realized the cute baby animals page was faulty. So sorry for the deprive! I updated to a new page.

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#1975

Edited

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#1976

no quote

it's weird to see this topic inactive.

#1977

Looks like I am back here again

#1978

Sincerelymaple a dit :
Looks like I am back here again

Maybe you should confront them
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#1979

Well I'm just going to bump this

Sweetporcelain a dit :
Sincerelymaple a dit :
Looks like I am back here again

Maybe you should confront them
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My problem is that I feel depressed because I feel alone and people don't seem to have respect for me anymore. Like this girl I thought was my friend says she purposely makes me mad because it's funny and this guy annoys me and when I ask him to stop he continues anyway. He also butts in my conversation with my friend and it's annoying. I only have like 5 friends who talk to me frequently and the other butt load don't seem to want to talk anymore. I WANT to die but don't be concerned cuz I don't have the energy to or the audacity.

Even though this is a little late I'm still going to try. Maybe try staying away from the people that are annoying you/making you feel unwanted. Try to socialize yourself with closer friends/family members

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#1980

｡o°✥✤✣ Hi, Cuties! ✣✤✥°o｡

I've been looking for ways to improve the Transformice Community, so I decided "hey, why don't I make a daily support post?" I've filled this post up with inspirational quotes, inspirational art, baby animals, and a daily ten reasons why you should continue living.

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Please enjoy these daily 10s and have a wonderful day! If you'd like to talk to me about a personal problem, please don't hesitate to PM me! I never share private conversations; what's PMed to me stays in my PMs.

｡･ﾟﾟ･ Inspirational Quotes ･ﾟﾟ･｡

“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Confucius
“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.” – Walt Disney
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.” — George Addair
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill
“Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.” – C.S. Lewis
“Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think, more talented than you know, and capable of more than you imagine.” ― Roy T. Bennett
“ I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” – Nelson Mandela
“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” ― Paulo Coelho
“It’s not whether you get knocked down. It’s whether you get up.” – Vince Lombardi

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｡･ﾟﾟ･ Inspirational Art ･ﾟﾟ･｡

｡･ﾟﾟ･ Reasons to Keep on Living ･ﾟﾟ･｡

Sunrises and sunsets.
The sound of a baby’s laugh.
Watching someone talk about something they’re passionate about.
The first snowfall of the season.
The smell of artificial watermelon.
Fresh baked cookies.
Shooting stars.
Stepping on crunchy leaves.
Splashing in puddles.
Traveling the world.

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