The wiki says you need 200 cheese gathered, 20 hours played, to have verified your email and to have purchased a fur for yourself at least 15 days ago...
I believe I meet all of these requirements, but the button isn't showing up. I've heard others say you need 30 hours, 700 cheese, etc etc...
Which of these is true?? I want to gift the collector fur in shop rn to my soulmate and it seems like I might just miss the chance...

Considering your account was made less than 15 days ago, you havent made the requirements yet.

Actually, I got the gift button now, BEFORE having 700 cheese and before 15 days of having made my account, so that's got to be all rumor.