y do people like to be mean to me.

Nobody's trying to be mean to you and if someone is, then it's their fault. Though you really shouldn't be spamming your suggestion in the EN chat thread. It annoys some members and that's why they might get mad at you :/

y i dont like it so sto being mean...
like i mean i ask nice for 3 firsts they say NO GO FUCK YOUR SELF

no before this i ask niceley but they YELL at me

Lionnox a dit :

y i dont like it so sto being mean...
like i mean i ask nice for 3 firsts they say NO GO FUCK YOUR SELF

That's how the community acts lately. There are rude people in the world, you'll need to get over it.
But don't forget that YOU should get those firsts. Nobody is supposed to give them to you.

And you really don't need to create a thread for something like this. I believe you can discuss it in the EN chat convo.

Sabusha a dit :

That's how the community acts lately. There are rude people in the world, you'll need to get over it.
But don't forget that YOU should get those firsts. Nobody is supposed to give them to you.

And you really don't need to create a thread for something like this. I believe you can discuss it in the EN chat convo.

how????

You're supposed to earn those firsts. I agree those guys were a bit overboard in asking you to 'go fuck yourself', but seriously, give them a chance. Not everybody is nice and pampering and saying," oh sure go ahead and have those firsts".

but im only 8 years old...

Lionnox a dit :

but im only 8 years old...

Nobody cares if you're 8 years old or 88 years old on TFM. I knew this sporty old granny(not monroe) who played TFM and now she's passed on.

Lionnox a dit :

but im only 8 years old...

So...?

Lionnox a dit :

but im only 8 years old...

Welcome to the Internet.

Lionnox a dit :

but im only 8 years old...

Sadly, most of the people won't change your behaviour towards you because of that. If you want to keep playing TFM, you'll need to get used to insults. Personally, insults and horrible community is the reason which is making me to leave this game. You'll get insulted just for not giving a first to someone during your sham turn, if you make a mistake and you mess up a building, you might get insulted by the entire room, no matter if you're pro or newbie. I've lost friends and got insulted just because I got some stupid firsts. I'm pretty sure that if you get older, you won't take it like that. Nobody likes being insulted

Sabusha a dit :

Sadly, most of the people won't change your behaviour towards you because of that. If you want to keep playing TFM, you'll need to get used to insults. Personally, insults and horrible community is the reason which is making me to leave this game. You'll get insulted just for not giving a first to someone during your sham turn, if you make a mistake and you mess up a building, you might get insulted by the entire room, no matter if you're pro or newbie. I've lost friends and got insulted just because I got some stupid firsts. I'm pretty sure that if you get older, you won't take it like that. Nobody likes being insulted

Ikr. true :/

Lionnox a dit :

but im only 8 years old...

unfortunately. no one can tell how old or how young someone is on the internet

the best thing to do is generally ignore those people who are mean to you (if you are confused about something, you can always whisper a friend who might know more or a sent if its a forum question)

Just to add, if there's a player spamming and badly insulting the entire room, you can always call a mod to help you. If the problem is bad enough, the player might get muted too. But don't forget, don't call a mod just because of one insult. Almost everyone is being rude lately.