Atelier 801
Atelier 801 
| [EN] The Comfort Corner! |
 Spazmycat  « Censeur » 1554980520000
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| i vomited in the shower and when i told my grandmother, she exactly said "no, no, no. not today. get dressed, you're going to school." i pressed on and she kept denying that i'm ill in any way and goes on to say "you don't have a fever" without even checking. i mention that and she presses her hand to my forehead, one of the most inefficient ways ever considering i have gotten a fever before and neither me nor my friends could feel it. i remember a day where i tried to leave early for stomach pain and when the nurse checked my temperature, i actually did have a fever and i didn't even know. my brother chirps in "i always go to school even when im sick" okay well you're never sick and you're in a nursing program at college. im literally a high school student with multiple diseases and illnesses. is your input really necessary? so anyway, that's fun i love going to school sick. |
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Stinky_hog  « Citoyen » 1555693620000
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| uhhh im justing saying hi |
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| Nightingale « Consul » 1557575100000
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| Good idea but it's dangerous "to play" psychologist, no ? |
| Argilita « Sénateur » 1558298700000
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| I'm so nervous, like, I can't stop thinking about my future and wth I'll do with my life Please help this is overwhelming I'm desperate I hate it, and the feeling keeps coming over and over Idek what to do about it too Am I going insane? |
Rottenappel  « Consul » 1559146260000
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| @Argilita No, overthinking is normal, it means you just want to be sure everything's going to be ok. Try finding a way to distract yourself from overthinking, like a project or a hobby. Something you can think about instead of your future self. I know a girl who overthinks a lot as well and comes to me for distraction, advice or just entertainment. She came up with the idea of writing a book, and ever since she's been feeling better. It's not a thing that can go away instantly, but if you work on something or keep yourself busy, your thoughts will go to that subject, not in a downwards spiral. Dernière modification le 1559147280000 |
| Argilita « Sénateur » 1559158080000
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I've got a few ideas, so I better get to work! 'u' |
| Rottenappel « Consul » 1559158200000
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| You know what? Send me a pm and keep me posted. I'd like to keep track of your progress and support if needed. :) |
Kingphillip  « Consul » 1559541360000
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| AYO GUESS WHO'S GAY AND HAS A MOTHER WHO IS HOMOPHOBIC!!!?? MEEEEEEE
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| Rottenappel « Consul » 1559631780000
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Sweetporcelain a dit : I don't get homophobes. If people like the same gender then that's good for them. You might as well hate on people who like cats or dogs, or even like a certain kind of color. Just rest assured, eventually your mother will have to submit and face the fact that she can't force you to like things you're not into. |
Archeutia  « Citoyen » 1559633340000
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Sweetporcelain a dit : I CAN RELATE, my mom doesn't even wanna talk about the fact that I'm gay so she can ignore this and assume that I'm not gay in her imaginary world. Plus, she told me that my dad would've killed me if he knew, and she was serious about it. |
| Kingphillip « Consul » 1559888280000
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Rreckyy a dit : My sister came out to my mom as bi and my mom told her that it's not a real thing or something like that so that's why I'm refraining from coming out to her. She did suspect that I was bi as well but I didn't want her to know because then my best friend wouldn't be allowed over so I said no. It took several times to convince her and I still believe she's not convinced |
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Syrius  « Consul » 1559988120000
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| ^ don't you think your boyfriend would get even more mentally harmed from your suicide? |
Zetsuen  « Citoyen » 1560011700000
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Lileaus a dit : first of all, if you haven't already talked to him about these issues, do it. be completely honest. if neither of you understand each other, neither of you are going to be able to help each other. i can't tell how bad his mental health is from your post but you might want to consider getting him help. it's all well and good to rely on each other but if you're both in bad places mentally, then it's probably only going to make it worse, especially if it's your relationship that's triggering these issues. don't break up completely with him (unless that's what you want), but you might want to suggest taking a couple of weeks break from the relationship. it sounds like you need a bit of time for your own mental health to stabilize and he might not take it as poorly as you would think, especially if you explain to him that it's for your own sake as much as his. we all fuck up sometimes, it's not the end of the world. just apologize and make an effort to avoid doing it again in the future. you both sound like you care for each other a lot so i'm sure he'll understand and appreciate that you're trying your best. talk to him often, ask him how his day was, etc. remind him that you care about him every so often, even if it's just sending him a heart emoji before you go to bed. remember, communication is what makes or breaks relationships (of all kinds, not just romantic). if you're seriously considering suicide, i urge you to get professional help yourself. here is a list of hotlines. Dernière modification le 1560011760000 |
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Flamberge  « Citoyen » 1560134400000
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| g so much shit has gone on in 6 months i cant even begin i dont even know what to say i guess its just that this year has been horrible for me and to put ontop of it my kitten died yesterday and im so fucking crushed over it its like god wants me to just give up already or something because i lost friends, then anxiety keeps getting to me, my friend who i like somewhat got real nasty in the spring and i guess our friendship got like borderline toxic bc we kept fighting eachother like physically (this isnt like anything abnormal to us though its usually just playfighting. he is a nice guy though) and my mom keeps getting angry at me a lot its like she doesnt bother to understand how i feel. she yells at me and though she never has like done anything to me im so scared of pissing her off and just her in general and i feel like im more comfortable and safe around my dad because atleast he won't yell or belittle me. i think once after my mom confronted me stupid little 11-12 year old me just wrote a letter to her that i was just a waste of space and worth nothing to this world (or something like that, it was in spanish). while it does sound stupid, i guess that's just how being around her made me feel. and i dont know how to feel about this whole thing its just confusing i feel really horrible right now because im shaking from some anxiety and im losing hope in anything i dont need like, advice or anything i just wanted to get this off my chest |
| Kingphillip « Consul » 1560402420000
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| I'm so sad right now I can't find my cat and that's worrying me because I really hope she's not dead, she's been my best friend for five years now. There's this one cat on the side of the road where I live and he's dead and I know it's not my cat or my business but that is most likely someone's pet and they're probably worried sick about him and it makes me sad. Like, just thinking about them discovering the cat and them being sad. Ive has many accidents with cats dying before and it's the worst feeling in the world. I hope they're okay and I hope my cat arrives |
Estine  « Censeur » 1560419040000
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| I like this thread, enjoy reading your daily 10s Penpause47 |