I have a crush on someone and he moved to another school and house a month or so ago...
so that's fun.

People don't get why I can't forget him and move on, but it's just
I never got to have a proper conversation with him. The only time I've really talked to him is when I was an idiot who didn't know how to work a vending machine. He called me sunset girl (because of my bag) until I told him my name. I just feel really sad whenever I think of him because if I try and talk on instagram he never replies, and I don't want to say anything in case it annoys him that I can't let go. I'll probably never see him again, he lives an hour or so away and I'd never go there.

sorry for rambling i just can't deal with it
it's hard.

Ian Harding

my crush irl... HMMMMMM .

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I told my dad what project we did but that a boy insulted my work. Then my dad told me that sometimes people do that if they like someone.

yeah no don't listen to that shit

Why not? Besides, it's my dad.

..But it's weird to think that someone who you don't like MAY LIKE YOU.....? O.O

because it's not true. that's why dabuchi said "don't listen to that shit"
if somebody is actually hating you then that is definitely not love

and who cares if somebody you don't like likes you? it happens

How should I know what's true and what's not? And, am I suppose to not trust my dad?

True, but it's funny to wonder about.

Sorry to butt in into this convo, but i just wanted to make sure you know the fact that he might be wrong too and just because he's your dad doesen't mean he always tells/knows the truth.

True.
Lol, it's funny to see past debates and stuff I've said. XD
oh gosh I only said that a year ago...


You guys are right, though.

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I'm probably gonna sound weird, but I've never in my life had a crush irl. :P
I honestly want to stay single for as long as I can. Having a boyfriend tagging along with me everywhere I go would really weigh me down, and while I'm young, I want to travel the world before settling down. And, I really see little need to have a boyfriend. A bunch of my friends at school say that I should get one, because it's apparently "soooooooooooooooo great" to have a boyfriend, but I honestly see no reason to get one. Heh, one boy even asked me out at school (And he was 11! Seriously?), and I refused, saying that I don't really see why I need a boyfriend. He said that it's good to have one because you get to share their money! Sheesh, kinda greedy.

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I'm probably gonna sound weird, but I've never in my life had a crush irl. :P
I honestly want to stay single for as long as I can. Having a boyfriend tagging along with me everywhere I go would really weigh me down, and while I'm young, I want to travel the world before settling down. And, I really see little need to have a boyfriend. A bunch of my friends at school say that I should get one, because it's apparently "soooooooooooooooo great" to have a boyfriend, but I honestly see no reason to get one. Heh, one boy even asked me out at school (And he was 11! Seriously?), and I refused, saying that I don't really see why I need a boyfriend. He said that it's good to have one because you get to share their money! Sheesh, kinda greedy.

there's nothing weird about never having a crush. :)
(besides, asexuality is a thing)

i have this crush on a girl, she knows it but shes cool about it
the first thing i told her was, "nice earrings" and she would say thanks
when we became best friends she would always be so affectionate, and its making me feel weIRD
and shes kinda hot and tall..
my friends know about this already and they are okay with it too
though i get kinda jealous when shes with other people??
today she told me to not hug anyone (except family) except her.
hHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Even though I've crushed on girls before, I've never really wanted an actual, genuine relationship as I value my independence enormously. Situations where I have to be in regular contact with someone stress me out

Mm, I think that one guy in my class has a crush on me. We're pretty chummy with each other and I also keep hearing little dribbles of the subject in class, but honestly I dont want to assume lmao

He's so cute though-- he's shorter than me and I absolutely love ruffling his hair it's so soft you will never understand

I have typical youtuber crushes. Mine being for Peanutbutter gamer where at this point I literally obsess over him.
My transformice crush is already my 'soulmate' <3 I screamed (not literally) when he 'proposed' to me.
But for people in my classes I like this one guy.. but I don't stand a chance, he's quite 'popular' among the other girls, and I sit next to him in english which is crazy :o. He's also part of my form, I also recently over heard a conversation where people were trying to guess who he likes, but I know it's not me. I've never been in a real life relationship, so I don't know how to react to my feelings or how to think or feel, but all I know is that it's killing me.
Nobody knows about this crush other than whoever reads this. And my parents still think I'm not interested in guys which doesn't help.

What do I do?? ;;

^ Hmm, well, I think the best thing would be to befriend him first of all if you haven't yet (sitting next to each other is more just like.. seatmates. In one class. Love doesn't mostly come out of thin air, haha. ) Don't rush with anything, nothing will suddenly happen overnight. :)

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Never have had a crush on anybody, not even fictional characters. But I do have a question, does your heart actually beat a bit louder/faster if you see or think of your loved one? Sounds pretty terrible honestly lol.

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^ Hmm, well, I think the best thing would be to befriend him first of all if you haven't yet (sitting next to each other is more just like.. seatmates. In one class. Love doesn't mostly come out of thin air, haha. ) Don't rush with anything, nothing will suddenly happen overnight. :)

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Never have had a crush on anybody, not even fictional characters. But I do have a question, does your heart actually beat a bit louder/faster if you see or think of your loved one? Sounds pretty terrible honestly lol.

Yeah befriending him first probably would be the best course of action. It's kinda hard for me since I'm the typical awkward and shy one. Yet we have talked a little during class.

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And to answer your question, yes your heartbeat does actually beat faster/louder which is kinda weird as you can't control it >.< It really depends on how much you like them, and if you're completely sure if you like them or not.

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Mm, I think that one guy in my class has a crush on me. We're pretty chummy with each other and I also keep hearing little dribbles of the subject in class, but honestly I dont want to assume lmao

He's so cute though-- he's shorter than me and I absolutely love ruffling his hair it's so soft you will never understand

So this guy that I was talking about is my boyfriend now and taller than me
Heh <:
eyeah sorry for posting it in two related threads but i cant get over itttt

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Never have had a crush on anybody, not even fictional characters. But I do have a question, does your heart actually beat a bit louder/faster if you see or think of your loved one? Sounds pretty terrible honestly lol.

It's actually a wonderful feeling! I can't describe it, but it's almost like instead of butterflies in your tummy, it's butterflies in your chest- but not the kind that will make you throw up. It's warm, and it fills your entire body with warmth, too.

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Mm, I think that one guy in my class has a crush on me. We're pretty chummy with each other and I also keep hearing little dribbles of the subject in class, but honestly I dont want to assume lmao

He's so cute though-- he's shorter than me and I absolutely love ruffling his hair it's so soft you will never understand

So this guy that I was talking about is my boyfriend now and taller than me
Heh <:
eyeah sorry for posting it in two related threads but i cant get over itttt

CONGRATULATIONS! <3

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It's actually a wonderful feeling! I can't describe it, but it's almost like instead of butterflies in your tummy, it's butterflies in your chest- but not the kind that will make you throw up. It's warm, and it fills your entire body with warmth, too.

I think it's bittersweet really, or in my case it is. It's a nice feeling to feel something for someone else, but it can get really frustrating at times where you don't know how to deal or handle these feelings, or if you know that they'd never feel the same way. ;-; <3

i have a crush on smartiewolfs

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It's actually a wonderful feeling! I can't describe it, but it's almost like instead of butterflies in your tummy, it's butterflies in your chest- but not the kind that will make you throw up. It's warm, and it fills your entire body with warmth, too.

I think it's bittersweet really, or in my case it is. It's a nice feeling to feel something for someone else, but it can get really frustrating at times where you don't know how to deal or handle these feelings, or if you know that they'd never feel the same way. ;-; <3

Oh, then I agree entirely.
Then it becomes a whirlwind of negativity if one doesn't know what to do about it.

irl i dont like anyone but on the internet i have a rlly good friend and we're close and i swear its impossible not to love him wtf i hope he sees this so he realizes hes worth everything (he knows who he is lmao)

i dont have any crushes and i'd be incapable to get in a relationship because everybody sees me as the ultimate tomboy piece of shit
even if someone was cute and had an amazing personality i just feel like i can't develop a crush no matter how hard i try to

Be careful of infatuation.
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That's okay, Kat! Some people are that way, and it's not always a bad thing that they can't develop crushes. I do doubt, however, that everyone sees you as a "tomboy piece of shit". Remember it's all in eye of the beholder.