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Quote or don't, I don't care

To others it may sound dumb, but to me it's killing my insides.

I got told today I have a dentist appointment on my birthday and my birthday is in 9 days, next week. But the thing is I've been planning on going out with my friends to wherever on that day since January!
My two friends were excited to go but now I have to tell them I can't.

My brother and niece are having their bday party on Thursday and my sister and mom are making us clean the house all day, today and tomorrow. But all I get it cavities for mine.

And this just reminds me of last year when my mom had to work all day and so I was forced to stay home.

I've asked her to reschedule but she said no.

I really don't know what to do..
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@Iwillforget

 It's not dumb. You have every right to feel upset about this.
 Have you asked her why exactly she can't reschedule? She should know this is a big deal for you, but if she has no way to change it then you'll have to plan for another day, maybe the one right before or after your birthday.
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My problem
So I have these two friends; Josie and Tyler.

I have been friends with Josie for about two months and about a week ago I introduced Tyler to Josie and I feel really third wheeled but I don't wanna tell them that in hope of them not being friends.
But Tyle hits on and hints about having sex with Josie all the time and Josie is still a minor and Tyler is about almost 18 I believe so it is really scaring me and I don't wanna talk to Josie about and tell her to stop being friends with him because I don't like what's going on but they are really close friends now and it scares me and I feel like it's ruining our relationship as Josie will show Tyler stuff that she doesn't show me like some of her art of herself or something else, and I will only see it if he posts it or shows me which he doesn't only posts in chat usually to bug her.But Josie does call me her best friend but I don't really feel like I am.

And a little side note that tyler did hit on me at one point until I turned his request of a date down, and now makes jokes about me being a paraplegic which are usually very rude and not funny at all but I only act like they are funny, so I don't hurt his feelings.


There is a lot more going on but I don't really wanna get into it as I'm tired and my hands hurt.
And I tried to proof read but failed I think but I really hope I can get help.

As of right now I am really unsure on what do to. But if this isn't the point of this topic I'm sorry.
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Just got back from the vet to find out my cat has anemia and needs to have a blood transfusion, but the chances of him surviving the transfusion are slim so we can either do that or euthanize him. I'm a wreck I love my cat he's was fine a week ago and everything went downhill. My brother had to go to work right after we found out and he was crying like I am he has to think about what he should do for Henry. Get the blood transfusion for a slim chance of survival or euthanize him to end his suffering. I want my cat to live I have so much more love to give him, so many more things for him to experience he isn't even a year old yet. Fuck I can't even go to class because I'm in such a torn state..
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i just read "you are loved" after reading a post that had 200 reasons why you shouldn't kill yourself and i actually started crying ???
is something up


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Elinormus a dit :
Jo1yne

Is this irl or in-game? Because if It's in-game I might know who you're talking about.. and no one likes to be the third-wheel trust me. The best way you should do is just tell them one by one you feel left out and if they don't change or at least give you more attention they dont care about you at all. What you can do is talk to Josie about Tyler and just warn her in advance, not tell her to stay away just give a heads up y'know? And sorry but Tyler sounds like a douche.


It's irl, but I am really scared to be shunned even more saying I feel left out again, as I tried once and they did say oh we will but nothing has changed. I didn't add that in it but it's happening.
But I have told her and she said said oh and I dismissed it so future drama could happen.
And you are right, Tyler is a douche
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@Steph

 I'm so sorry you're going through this. You don't want to lose your pet, but that may be your only option. I've lost cats before and am speaking from experience when I say it may be best to euthanize him: you want to remember the good times, and when your last days together are stressful and traumatic it makes the grieving process worse. Ultimately, though, it is your decision.

If you ever want to vent I am here to listen.
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lol i wanna cry a lot for no reason and im hiding from all of my important work again oops

e:// the only reason probably being that im selfish lmaoooo
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Mikiaya a dit :
@Steph

 I'm so sorry you're going through this. You don't want to lose your pet, but that may be your only option. I've lost cats before and am speaking from experience when I say it may be best to euthanize him: you want to remember the good times, and when your last days together are stressful and traumatic it makes the grieving process worse. Ultimately, though, it is your decision.

If you ever want to vent I am here to listen.

Thank you

but he died last night before we could get him the blood transfusion. i sat with him before he died and told him i loved him
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beep bo beep

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There is this one person who I am not sure if I can call her a friend. Let's call her Seven.
So several months ago, seven and I were great friends. But lately, she's been sub zero cold.
Why? Because of all the fights she's sparked.
I try to be mature and calm her down but she acts like I took the last slice of cake.
And she claims she had had certain things first and I should get rid of them like pictures you can easily find on Google. I honestly makes me nervous. Like, I'm not trying to copy. I just find certain pictures amazing.
I stopped caring about her complaints but it still haunts me at times. And I can't talk to her about it because she'll lash out
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Mikiaya a dit :
@Iwillforget

 It's not dumb. You have every right to feel upset about this.
 Have you asked her why exactly she can't reschedule? She should know this is a big deal for you, but if she has no way to change it then you'll have to plan for another day, maybe the one right before or after your birthday.

I asked her why and I think it was "because I would have to plan it another time"
Pfft, yeah. That's the point of rescheduling- Also, I think she can only schedule dentist appointments on Thursdays. We had a dentist appointment last year which was the day after my birthday and that was a Thursday.
Also, after thinking, I feel it would be best just to go over to my friend's house.
Thank you for the help ^^;

Also Jeremy. Same. But does she ever show a sign of remorse or sorrow?

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This is a quick PSA:

If you're actually feeling suicidal, or you feel the need to self harm, please talk to someone other than posting it here. I get it's easy to open up on the forums, but this place is filled with children, and the chances of you actually getting sufficient help with your problems won't be as good as getting professional help from a counsellor or psychiatrist.

If you're hurting, please tell someone.
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Fnaf2jeremy a dit :
There is this one person who I am not sure if I can call her a friend. Let's call her Seven.
So several months ago, seven and I were great friends. But lately, she's been sub zero cold.
Why? Because of all the fights she's sparked.
I try to be mature and calm her down but she acts like I took the last slice of cake.
And she claims she had had certain things first and I should get rid of them like pictures you can easily find on Google. I honestly makes me nervous. Like, I'm not trying to copy. I just find certain pictures amazing.
I stopped caring about her complaints but it still haunts me at times. And I can't talk to her about it because she'll lash out

that sucks but i mean if she's behaving like that you shouldn't be her friend at all. i'm sure that you're probably a great friend that doesn't deserve someone like that
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Monsterboyo a dit :
This is a quick PSA:

If you're actually feeling suicidal, or you feel the need to self harm, please talk to someone other than posting it here. I get it's easy to open up on the forums, but this place is filled with children, and the chances of you actually getting sufficient help with your problems won't be as good as getting professional help from a counsellor or psychiatrist.

If you're hurting, please tell someone.

venting to a forum where you know you most likely wont get help/will be ignored or even ask to be ignored can be helpful to people who dont want to worry someone by just saying they feel like dying
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Ok so this is about my missing/lost cat

Last night (july 15) when i got home from work, I asked my mom where our cat, Juno, was. My mom said she was outside and she's been out for about an hour now. So usually when we want to let her in, we just call her name and shake treats and she always comes running towards the door. Well this time we called her and she didn't come, so we thought maybe she's out in the greenbelt, because we have a giant greenbelt/field in my backyard and she could be exploring there. Well 3-4 hours later, we're still calling for her and no response.
Today, I searched about 4 hours for her. I went into the greenbelt, I asked neighbors if I could check their garages or backyards and told them to be on the look out. No luck.
What scares me is that there are coyotes in the greenbelt and I am hoping one didn't catch her. That or she has a second family that we are unaware of. But i'm upset and sad because I got her for my mom's birthday, she isn't even a year old (maybe 9 months? idk she's pretty small though), and she gets scared easily outdoors. So the fact that she is lost upsets me or if she's dead, makes me more upset.
Now I have another cat and I've had cats before her and I do know they will wander off for a couple days. I read stories on how cats go missing for a couple days, even up to months, and come back home. So i'm hoping she shows up in the next day or two..
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Mikiaya a dit :
@Iwillforget

 It's not dumb. You have every right to feel upset about this.
 Have you asked her why exactly she can't reschedule? She should know this is a big deal for you, but if she has no way to change it then you'll have to plan for another day, maybe the one right before or after your birthday.

I asked her why and I think it was "because I would have to plan it another time"
Pfft, yeah. That's the point of rescheduling- Also, I think she can only schedule dentist appointments on Thursdays. We had a dentist appointment last year which was the day after my birthday and that was a Thursday.
Also, after thinking, I feel it would be best just to go over to my friend's house.
Thank you for the help ^^;

Also Jeremy. Same. But does she ever show a sign of remorse or sorrow?

No she never does
Mainly because she thinks she is all that in a bag of licorice
But I think I'll just end up blocking her and if she throws a fit, so be it
Seven needs to grow up
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