[EN] The Comfort Corner!

Sunnikay a dit :
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You could try contacting local animal shelters maybe someone brought her to a shelter and if you can make flyers with her pictures name and address or even try social media like facebook or IG that way it gets circulated for people to know she has a loving family who are worried sick about her

I hope you find her soon and hope she's in a good condition <3

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dont quote thanks

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Sunnikay a dit :
Ok so this is about my missing/lost cat

Last night (july 15) when i got home from work, I asked my mom where our cat, Juno, was. My mom said she was outside and she's been out for about an hour now. So usually when we want to let her in, we just call her name and shake treats and she always comes running towards the door. Well this time we called her and she didn't come, so we thought maybe she's out in the greenbelt, because we have a giant greenbelt/field in my backyard and she could be exploring there. Well 3-4 hours later, we're still calling for her and no response.
Today, I searched about 4 hours for her. I went into the greenbelt, I asked neighbors if I could check their garages or backyards and told them to be on the look out. No luck.
What scares me is that there are coyotes in the greenbelt and I am hoping one didn't catch her. That or she has a second family that we are unaware of. But i'm upset and sad because I got her for my mom's birthday, she isn't even a year old (maybe 9 months? idk she's pretty small though), and she gets scared easily outdoors. So the fact that she is lost upsets me or if she's dead, makes me more upset.
Now I have another cat and I've had cats before her and I do know they will wander off for a couple days. I read stories on how cats go missing for a couple days, even up to months, and come back home. So i'm hoping she shows up in the next day or two..

Update: she came back. She is missing some fur on the top of her head so I guess she got into a fight with another cat and she ran off to hide or got lost for a little bit

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Sunnikay a dit :
Sunnikay a dit :
Ok so this is about my missing/lost cat

Last night (july 15) when i got home from work, I asked my mom where our cat, Juno, was. My mom said she was outside and she's been out for about an hour now. So usually when we want to let her in, we just call her name and shake treats and she always comes running towards the door. Well this time we called her and she didn't come, so we thought maybe she's out in the greenbelt, because we have a giant greenbelt/field in my backyard and she could be exploring there. Well 3-4 hours later, we're still calling for her and no response.
Today, I searched about 4 hours for her. I went into the greenbelt, I asked neighbors if I could check their garages or backyards and told them to be on the look out. No luck.
What scares me is that there are coyotes in the greenbelt and I am hoping one didn't catch her. That or she has a second family that we are unaware of. But i'm upset and sad because I got her for my mom's birthday, she isn't even a year old (maybe 9 months? idk she's pretty small though), and she gets scared easily outdoors. So the fact that she is lost upsets me or if she's dead, makes me more upset.
Now I have another cat and I've had cats before her and I do know they will wander off for a couple days. I read stories on how cats go missing for a couple days, even up to months, and come back home. So i'm hoping she shows up in the next day or two..

Update: she came back. She is missing some fur on the top of her head so I guess she got into a fight with another cat and she ran off to hide or got lost for a little bit

I'm glad she's back ! :D If her personality starts changing it might indicate she's getting sick or if she stops eating take her to the vet

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i hate it when my parents yell at me for no reason

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@Sunnikay

Does Juno have a chip? I would recommend chipping her and purchasing a leash+harness so you can walk her outdoors but keep her safe. You don't want this to happen again, because it might not have another happy ending. I'm glad she's back with you!!

@Cutykaity

This is going to sound very bland, but I'm sorry that happens and you in no way deserve that.
Has this been going on for a while? Most importantly, are you safe?
I am here to listen if you need to talk about it. I can't say I understand your specific situation because I don't, but I have been there. I know it sucks, and it should never happen. Sometimes people lose their tempers but if it's happening again and again then there's an issue that needs to be addressed.

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nevermind

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Mikiaya a dit :
@Sunnikay

Does Juno have a chip? I would recommend chipping her and purchasing a leash+harness so you can walk her outdoors but keep her safe. You don't want this to happen again, because it might not have another happy ending. I'm glad she's back with you!!
@Cutykaity

This is going to sound very bland, but I'm sorry that happens and you in no way deserve that.
Has this been going on for a while? Most importantly, are you safe?
I am here to listen if you need to talk about it. I can't say I understand your specific situation because I don't, but I have been there. I know it sucks, and it should never happen. Sometimes people lose their tempers but if it's happening again and again then there's an issue that needs to be addressed.

yeah i'm safe and thanks for your help i'll be fine. thank you alot i appreciate that

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i don't have any personal problems of my own but i have several friends that have trouble with bullying issues and depression.
i have only met them through transformice and i do my best to try to comfort them but sometimes it's not enough, i do understand that i need to give them some breathing space and alone time but sometimes it feels like i only make situations worse.
i have one friend in particular that always gets depressed especially during the school year, she has no real friends, she doesn't have any adults that she's comfortable enough to talk to/trusts, including her parents. she only talks to me sometimes about it when she wants somewhere to vent her frustration, i'm worried she might try to suicide someday.
does anyone have any advice on how to comfort her? i don't know her irl but she's a very close friend of mine.

i want to talk to her before redirecting her to this thread because she doesn't seem too comfortable on the forums. when i do, though, as a last resort, i'll delete this post.

v thank you so, so much, i'll try to c:

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Purpledimond

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am I too late to ask for comfort

Elinormus a dit :

I read all of that and honestly you should talk to him about how you feel??

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^they said dont quote bro

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I feel like no one reads my dumb post and will never reply to me. I feel like someone should help me

I don't feel like talking to anyone unless they address me first. No one ever bothers to even reply back to me or even cares. I can't hold a conversation with anyone without feeling nervous. I just don't understand why I feel this way, but still, get yelled at for not talking. so its just being yelled at for having fun just blows me out of the water. My happiness meter is in half .

#1818

I don't know how to explain this problem to utter strangers, but here goes.

#1819

i wish this one person felt the same abt me I really do I love them so much irjfiaowfjwosujfoafowjdo I'm so sad knowing that they don't feel the same about me and they like someone else I'm so angry at myself I wish they just felt the same about me I love them so much I wish they just knew

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