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at this point irrelevant but w/e So to sorta "wrap up" (or clarify, I guess?) these past few days' events: Bear in mind that people can change if they choose to. There are always second chances if people are willing to put effort towards them. And even though I have already said it clearly numerous times, I only had one direct story and a few details which was why I said that some things were assumptions. So yes, there's obviously bias when you only have one side of a story. Thought I had implied that.. but I guessed some people missed that or something I don't really know. The goal was to remove the conflict from the forum, but that doesn't mean it has to remove the person that may have caused it. Best to give them another chance so long as they are willing to do the same for themselves. Basically, don't pester them, but it's just good advice in general to not get personal with people too quickly. That's not advice limited to this situation, you shouldn't open up to anyone that you haven't known very long. Deep conversation usually doesn't create friendships unless people already have a pretty strong bond with each other. (And this is not advice targeting a certain person, in case you though it was.) They'd like me to apologize, in which case I will apologize for the manner in which I approached the situation. It would have definitely been more civil to PM first, but I was a bit too impatient for that. I guess I'll also apologize for making them feel as if I thought of them as a worthless thing rather than a person, though I hope they realize that was never an intention. I had no intentions of lying and omitting certain details that would have helped their case, as I was never told any, though it probably would've been better to do if I had been. This entire thing was to generally inform people about watching out, and I do think that there was definitely things taken out of context. It was mainly to defend the group of people I felt were unjustly hurt, but everyone should realize that forgiveness exists. I only becomes an issue if it is needed time and time again, and after all this, I don't really think there's a need for further conflict. The message has gone through, I guess, and it's time for life to resume because, at the end of the day, drama gets old fast and no one cares after a week. Dernière modification le 1487213760000 |
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please wish winterflurry a happy birthday! forgot how fun this style was to draw. did i ever post those shitpost mice from a number of months back on this thread? it's kinda like those. might do requests for them soon because i dont hate drawing them because they arent meant to look professional, just silly ![]() |
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shard deserves all the compliments in the world (again, thank you for the art <3) |
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i think im gonna start stalking off topic for bday threads and draw anyone who has a mouse ref fairysugars ![]() Winterflurry a dit : aaa thank youuu no problem <3 Dernière modification le 1487292480000 |