Flipgraham a dit :

You're aware players have many other ways of communicating other than through a pixelated brown blob? There are social networks sites dedicated to communication, there's video chats on Skype and many more. Wouldn't really say it's a problem if 2 people are happy doing it.

This ^

If you're old enough to be in an actual, proper long-distance relationship then I think you know basic internet rules like that.

Just a tiny example of the random players asking for bf/gf in any room and its dangers:

[20:47] [Pa] sii yo soy tu novia (Yees I'm your gf)
[20:47] [Pa] tenes facebook (you have facebook?)
[20:47] [Portal] siiiiiiiiii (yeeeeeeees)
[20:47] [Portal] (Facebook link)
[20:48] [Ned] PAHEY NO DIJISTE QUE ERAS MI NOVIA -.- ( PAHEY DIDN'T YOU SAY I WAS YOUR BF -.-)
[20:48] [Pa] ya no soy (I'm not anymore)
[20:48] [Ned] ME DAS TU FACE PAHEY PODEMOS SER AMIGOS (GIVE ME YOUR FACE(book) PAHEY WE CAN BE FRIENDS)

So here they are sharing private information already, this is why that kind of players are in danger, not talking about serious LDR but the ones asking randomly for gf/bf.

That's just uninformed kids. They're putting themselves in danger by giving out that info, and likely having a Facebook while underage. That's why it's against the rules of this forum (EN, atleast) to share any personal contact information.

Oh you got the thing I was about to paste Haru xD, they just wrote their ages:

[20:55] [Pa] yo tengo 11 anos vos portal----- (I'm 11 years old, you portal?)
[20:55] [Pa] yoo tenggo 12 años (I havve 12 years)
[20:56] [Portal] 12
[20:56] [Ned] YO 24 AÑOS TENGO SE QUE SOY GUAPETON CHICAS (I'M 24 I KNOW I'M HANDSOME GIRLS)

Obviously the last one is lying cos of his actitude, but those players sharing their facebook are 10-12 years old

I had 4 gfs in this game, not because i asked them to be my gfs, but because they asked me. I think I attract lots of girls for some reason. Even Sydoline said something nice about me once.

Shinymew a dit :

I had 4 gfs in this game, not because i asked them to be my gfs, but because they asked me. I think I attract lots of girls for some reason. Even Sydoline said something nice about me once.

omggg be my bf plz?? c: xD;

I don't mind older people dating on tfm (although I would never do it), but I'm against 10-12 year olds dating here

Sherrwagn a dit :

I don't mind older people dating on tfm (although I would never do it), but I'm against 10-12 year olds dating here

I've done it A ZILLION cuz most of them asked me but I actually never really cared so.. I went deleting and deleting and deleting... plus, like I said in another thread before, I mostly go on forums, so I don't have those relationSH!TS anymore (sorry for my English).

If you want to have a relationship, they should get off tfm, since everyone knows deep down inside that it won't work out. I mean, if you don't see yourself with this person, if you don't even know what their voice sounds like, or how they LOOK, do you actually see yourself getting married to this person that lives about a million miles away?
No?
Thought so....

I was thinking, and I realised all the guys I consider good friends are either from fanfiction.net (one guy) or Tfm. Especially the one from fanfiction.net, who also has a tfm account. (At least I think he's a guy, IDK.) How sad. But I don't care, since I'm in a girls school. Not like I'm going to meet any boys any time soon.

Lparents a dit :

If you want to have a relationship, they should get off tfm, since everyone knows deep down inside that it won't work out. I mean, if you don't see yourself with this person, if you don't even know what their voice sounds like, or how they LOOK, do you actually see yourself getting married to this person that lives about a million miles away?
No?
Thought so....

I know how my boyfriend sounds and how he looks; we've been together for a year. What's your point?

Relationships are difficult no matter what kind they are. There's no point generalising as everyone is different. However there are things in your standard relationship you can do that you can't with someone the other side of the planet. It's totally up to the two individuals if they can deal with those obstacles and make it work.

I dated this guy I met on tfm for 8 months.
We met on Halloween last year.
Like all relationships, long distance or not, things were great in the beginning but then you want to really see that person. (if long distant and from my experience)
We tried to stay strong and we met this year's summer for a few days.
Then we broke up a few months later.
Imo, long distance never works out for me and a lot of other people.
But I think if you really really love that person, it's worth the wait.

I don't approve of TFM distant reltionships personally. I actually stopped approving in any game relationships because I'm just done with it all. The other person could be sketchy as fawk. Unless you really get along with that person and their personality then that's good for you. I tend to like the whole irl dating because you actually know who you're dealing with, but that's just me.

I just accept because anyways, they won't talk to me never again. :3

I'm a girl and yes I'm KINDA dating a girl here in TFM (Haniniel) but, I don't if we break up or something because it's a darn game anyways....

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Its usually inexperienced little kids who have no idea how love works, it happens everywhere, even on AJ which is an actual children's site, its ridiculous.

But y'know, kids like to copy adults. And they think the proper way is to literally go into any room and shout "I need a bf/gf!" Like no, you don't, you need an education not a 'relationship' on a mouse game.

And if you think that's bad enough then I sure hope you don't speak spanish, because thats literally 90% of chat on the ES server which is my secondary server.

There's a right way to go about it, but most of the time its not intentional like the above.